What should I say to her on the phone to keep the conversation going????

Question

When This girl I like and I talk on the phone she is usually the one that talks and its kind of awkward when she stops talking and then there is a pause, what do girls like to talk about, should I just continue to listen to her talk and laugh at everything she says most of the time its pretty funny though:), because I feel as though she dosen't really care what I say LOL but we still hang out sometimes and when we do hang out we always have a good time but I guess I'm not much of a phone person when it comes to talking to girls.

Thanks

Answer 1

I love to talk on the phone alot (go figure im a girl) and the person I'm talking too rite now isn't really of a chatter box as I am. So inorder for me to actually maximize telephone conversation out of him I ask him about stuff he likes...Fave TV show that aired the previous night, cars, wrestling...This makes him talk more because he is eager to share something he is probably passionate about. Im not saying that I really understand what the hell is talkn about but I take the chance to ask...oooh what is that....what does that thingermajig do..intersting...blah blah blah...he knows that I probably dont undertsnd worth a heck of what he said but He appreciates the fact that I'm interested in something he likes. I'm not trying to say that you should start watching Desperate housewives so that you can have something to talk about but I't sure does help to know something she is passionate about and take it from there....
Also be opinonative. If you probably dont agree on a certain philosophy or fact, start a friendly debate. Give her your opinion and state the reasons why...Watever you do dont start an argument with her...recepie for disaster...
Ask her questions about stuff. Even if she doesnt ask you about your opinion on the topic asked ("What do you think?/How about you/) just tell her anyway. It keeps the conversation going and also brings out stuff about each other both of you would have never thunked
Good Luck....