My date told to meet up on Sunday after a hang out on Friday night and he text messaged me saying that "thanks for your company tonight! C u on sunday! Hugs". Next day I texted him, and said I have a class between 4 an 7 and if he calls me or texts me in the morning we can decide what time we can meet up. The next day no call/text from him. I call him in the break like 6ish. He texts me at 10pm saying that he went out of town with his roommate and call when he comes back. I wasn't the one who wanted to meet up that day but since he wanted to meet up I opened up my day and cancelled other stuff except my class. However, I was the one who got dissapointed a bit I guess. Upon his text message I sent him an acknowledgement indicating that I got his text saying "Enjoy your vacation, alright, call me when you get back in town." I am not planning to call him until he calls. What would you think about this whole situation?
2007-02-20 05:42:47 · 9 answers · asked by bubi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess it is a total blown off, just sent an acknowledgment message saying enjoy your vacation and then call me when you get back in town. No call from him, I did not either even though I kind of liked him. However, I guess he does not deserve me. I am not dependent on him, I don't need to be with him or I don't need to love him and I am desperate to date someone. If he wanted, he would have called, maybe he is too scared or insecure so he states that he is single for the last 5 years or he is way way way picky. There is a lot of people out there who can appreciate me. So, I say I guess "Next!!". Good luck for him as well.
2007-02-22 06:04:38 · update #1
You are dealing with an immature self centered "child" who loves to play games. Chances are that he is experimenting and has someone else to "play" with. I had a roommate in college who was an expert at manipulating females, and he would come up with a similar scenario. BLOW HIM OFF! and find someone who respects you and doesn't play infantile games. Good Luck.
2007-02-20 05:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Alfie333 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident. i'd be ordinary in case you weren't. no count number if or no longer you like this guy previous a friendship point, the factor is, he blew you off, no longer as quickly as, yet two times. That shows in that he's undependable, some thing to keep in mind once you attempt and dangle out or connect with him. So bypass forward and get offended. it relatively is a superbly wide-spread reaction, yet do no longer enable it choose your next determination. in case you like this guy, yet do no longer decide to grant him yet another hazard, then you definately would be giving into his anger. attempt and be greater judgemental in the direction of your observances of him. If he maintains to blow you off, then you definately grants up on him understanding that he's an undependable guy.
2016-10-16 02:43:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should've called you when he made plans with the roommate.
BUT I could see where he didn't want to wait around all day for you to be done with class. I think bc you didn't have 'concrete' plans set, it's ok for him to flake out.
Don't call him. If he doesn't contact you this week, move on.
2007-02-20 05:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him to call again. It could've been something urgent that called him away. Give him the benefit of the doubt this time, but if it happens again, forget him.
2007-02-20 05:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Louie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to know ages here. He could just be lazy and disorganized. Men are like that. Like me for example. Hugs!
2007-02-20 05:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by heartscared 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that was really messed up of him. next time don't change your plans to accommodate him because now you know what his priorities are (his friends)
2007-02-20 05:49:13 · answer #6 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just not that into you. Don't even call him at all. I'd move on and ignore the loser.
2007-02-20 05:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that something better came up. Kinda rude of him I think.
2007-02-20 05:47:35 · answer #8 · answered by calif.sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait and see if he calls!!
2007-02-20 05:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by sarah_652468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋