Ladies: has ur man done suspicious things u convinced urself he cheated?

Question

then broke up with him and later regretted it and found out it wasnt true.

Answer 1

that's the biggest problem with women; they think it then they believe it then they swear it and it is never true. and then they regret it. because they are all goofy!!! they belong in the kitchen and the bedroom.

Answer 2

Whenever there are trust issues it is wise to bring your concerns to the table. It is best to discuss together how these doubts of his loyalty is making you feel. If he cares, he would be more than willing to reassure you so that this issue will no longer draw a bridge between the two of you, as it will if left unresolved. . My guess is that you had tried to discuss it with him in the past and you did not get the results and reassuring you needed from him. This could have been due to the way the subject was brought up. If you approached the subject in an accusatory way as to have made him feel attacked, then his response was most likely to be defencive. This way of discussing did not resolve the problem. Call him and say to him, "honey I have been feeling something that has been hurting me, I want to resolve this so that I can begin to feel better about us. I want you to know that I trust you but only need your reassurance so that you and I can move past this". ..then begin from there. I bet he will be more open to caring about making you feel better. Best of luck to you.

Answer 3

ummm, about 8 years ago when iw as in HS, i was dating this guy and i always took my best gf with me everywhere we went.
Well when i graduated, me and the bf moved in together and my friend still came around.
they hung out together too and it was no big deal, til one day he asked her to run him across town bc his car was broke, and when she asked if i was coming and i said yes he got this pissed off look on his face and didnt say a word the whole car ride.
it progressively got worse, me and the gf stopped talking, and i eventually moved back home to 'take a break' from the relationship.
one day i stopped by our apt and he answered and she was sitting on the couch. I said i needed to talk to him and she left.
i ended it right then,
two years later me and her started talking again and she asked why we stopped talking and i told her. she swore nothing ever happened, and that they were just like brother sister... i was doubtful.
me and him hadnt talked in 2 years and she said that they had ahouse together as roomies with another friend of his.
i actually got ti sit down and talk to him for the first time in those 2 years.. and i honestly believe that it was nothing but friendship, and that the reason he never wanted me to come with is bc we were around each other so much when his car broke that he wanted a break and thats the only way he could have gotten it.

whether its true or not i dont care ive moved on to a better man... but sometimes you wonder.

Answer 4

You don't say what kind of suspicious things. My son acted suspicious to his ex girlfriend just because she was on him for every little thing, so he clammed up. Perfectly normal. Although there are certain signs that mean that you should have cause to worry. Be more specific.

Answer 5

Yes! Like he wouldn't call like everyday like he use to. Sometime our we are 99.9% that our boyfriend are cheating, because when they start acting strange and you know he never act like that before. I think you should do some investigation before accuseing he of do anything.

Answer 6

I was suspicious and right!

Answer 7

yes....i have. but then he started sleeping with my cousin after we broke up so...

Answer 8

no

Answer 9

no