It seems so crazy how she is comming around, is it fake?

Question

well if you have read my past questions ..this is regarding the same situation of the girl im with. we have been going out again for a month now (2 years all together though..) and im playing the hard to get type deal , especially with my heart and shes falling for all of it, she wants to see me all the time! and she said i love you to me once already but i didnt say it back and she has almost said it a few times and tells my friend that she still isnt 100 percent sure if she is in love with me but its clear as day that she is, is she being bipolar again?(we stopped saying i love you because of previous things that occured) i just dont want her to get tired of me again and i told her that and she said well if i wanna see you then thats different, hmm? im just holding back alot this time being super cautious even though everything has been going great so far and we are getting along so much better then we use to and are alot more open and jokingly with each other.

i dunno it seems like its to good to be true.. but im just hoping that it is completley 100 percent real this time around. and that she isn't saying or doing things that she does not mean.. i made it perfectly clear to her not to do that. i hope she listened.

not really playing games its actually how i feel, its a guard im putting up no easy access... and we are going out why would i take her on a date haha

Answer 1

I understand where you're coming from. I wouldnt let my guard down just yet since you do have experiance with being hurt by this person before. Take it slow.

Answer 2

Would you two stop playing around and be serious already?

Just ask her out on a official date. If is as you said, she is probably going to say yes, and you two will end up kissing that day and who knows what else.

Just go and do it before is too late.

Answer 3

just the fact you are playing games shows that this relationship is doomed.
if you can't be honest then you have nothing to build on