Did you do it for love, pregnancy, because of pressure? Please state why you married, are you happy, and what is the difference from just dating or living as married? I am doing research for a paper and I also am interested to hear the response. Thanks!
2007-02-20 05:05:59 · 8 answers · asked by Jm 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
35 years ago for love and not only do I still love her but I bless the day I first met her and yes I am very happy
2007-02-20 05:14:51 · answer #1 · answered by michael c 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
-Currently having a affair with married man for year- So, STOP. It isn't nearly as hard as people make it out to be. Stop taking the calls, move away, block his email. Whatever you need to do to cut him out of your life. -Gotten VERY serious. I was pregnant, he moved me 4 blocks from his home, AND matching tattoos- This is so beyond unintelligent I can't figure where to start. A child by a man who has a family is just wrong, that child deserves better as do his children and wife. Moving near is you is beyond unfair to his FAMILY, and matching tattoos is just stupid regardless in any situation where you aren't committed. And no, you aren't committed, he is married. - Has wife of 10 years, and 4 children- Okay, both he and you just became less than human in my opinion. But that is neither here nor there. -Wife discovered affair and found OUT EVERYTHING, and I mean EVERYTHING. She decided to stick around (for what reason I will never know)- Because she wants to keep her family together and loves her dead beat piece of crap husband for some reason. You should know the reasons intimately since you also decided to stay with this man knowing he was a liar, a cheater, has a wife he claimed to love and honor for a decade and was willing to do that to her and FOUR children. -"I am there for the kids only". - You are an idiot if you believe this for one minute. Do you think he told his wife that when she found out? No. He told her he loves her and doesn't want to lose her. If you have any sense at all, you will run far away from this man and situation.
2016-05-23 22:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanted to get married because I thought we made a pretty good team. We were in love, living together and I thought that there was a move forward or break up move in the near future. I thought she was the right one but the timing was too soon for me. Lots of little things I choose to ignore.
Seventeen years later we have kids, and I am married to a woman that considers being married to me a "mistake." I stay with her because I want to finish raising my children. She holds me to a standard to which she doesn't even hold herself and constantly reminds me how much I fail her. Yet for as bad as it is, it's not all that bad. I have no idea if we will stay together once the kids are gone. I don't think I would ever marry again if this doesn't work out.
2007-02-20 11:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Snagglepuss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a completely honest answer and some won't like it. She was rich, we had good sex before marriage, and I fell in love with her. Yes, I fell in love with her after. It was not love at first sight. It was lust and like at first sight. Her family ended up losing all of their money, we continued with better sex and I stayed in love. I am happy. We still have good sex and are partners in life (just so you don't thing sex is everything). Dating was great. We longed to be together. We didn't and don't believe in living together before marriage. It's obvious that sex was and is a very important part of our life. We've never lost our love or sex drive.
2007-02-20 05:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married for Love, or what we thought was love. The good news is it has grown into a very deep love and respect of each other.
I couldn't imagine being with anyone else. We've had more than our share of ups and downs, but we faced them as a team. It's never been "ME or Mine" it's always been "Us and Ours"
2007-02-20 05:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by nalla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I married the first time out of love, the second time out of love and lust, and the third time out of true love. I have stuck out for the third time. I'm out for the count. Marry for unconditional love and nothing else. Take it from someone who learned the hard way.
2007-02-20 05:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by golden rider 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't. One day my girlfriend told me we were looking at hotels for the reception. I figured at that point we were getting married.
It worked out. I'm very happy. I was also happy living with her. Didn't matter to me either way.
2007-02-20 05:11:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was 29, she was nice, we fell in love, 20 yrs later she is no longer into sex and has tuned me out. i keep myself happy with my hobbies and an occasional night out
2007-02-20 05:12:17 · answer #8 · answered by Jim G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋