My mother has a problem. I don't know if there is a medical term for it, but she gets angry and yells over the smallest detail. I didn't notice it much as a child but the more time i spend with her, the more anxious i am to get away. she's a nice loving person, but i don't know what has gotten into her. anyway my boyfriend and i lived together for a while and he moved to a different state to get a new job, which leaves me with the 700 rent to pay on my own. living with my mother for a couple months would be a logical choice as far as financially, but living with her would mean that i'd have an hour commute each way to work (as opposed to the 15 min commute i have now) and to deal with her mood swings. what should i do?
bottom line, if i stay in my apt, it'll be harder to pay the rent without the second income, but closer to work.
if i go home, i won't have to pay rent, but i'd have a further commute and deal with the tyrant mom. PLEASE HELP!
2007-02-20 05:00:03 · 6 answers · asked by myfianceisamonkey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I never said i don't love or respect my mom. I'm merely saying she's impossible to live with right now
2007-02-20 05:16:53 · update #1
Live on your own. It will be tough, but it's only temporary, and you'll be happier.
2007-02-20 05:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by Steven D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, start savin'! Not many people want to go back to their parents when they're in that situation, but, I would say start looking for place around where you are now. Found out what the rental market is and see what available and if it'll be easy for you to find another place first of all. If not, stay where u are and scrounge for a bit until you get enough saved up to where you're not totlally in finacial ruin.
If there are a lot of choices out there, look for aplace with alittle lower rent while you're still at the place you are now, scrounge some money, live cheap for a while, leave your current place, move in witn mom (hopefully for only a couple of weeks) then get into a new place as soon as p ossible.
Thats what I did.
2007-02-20 05:11:46 · answer #2 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you checked into whether it will cost money to get out of your current apartment? If you had to sign a lease you may have to pay to break it and that can range anywhere from a month's rent to all the rent until someone else takes the place. It totally depends on what state laws are.
If it ends up that breaking the lease costs you money is there anyone who could room with you to make the rent easier?
2007-02-20 09:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by Critter 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
particular i think of its honest. yet i'd wish she isn't inquiring for a super bite because of the fact then it proves and facilitates no longer something. If something she could be helping you study to stability and funds the money. i think of if i became right into a parent i'd in all probability ask for the money and positioned it in an account and once you compromise directly to go on then provide it to you as yet in a diverse way that might actually assist you progression in existence. only a theory.
2016-11-24 20:18:10 · answer #4 · answered by shepardson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel lucky that you have a mother, and she is willing to have you move back into her house. did you ever think that the reason she has these mood swings is because of you living there for free? grow up.
2007-02-20 06:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by lidakamo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that you are only thinking of yourself. If your mom is that bad I think that you should stay in your own apartment. I think that you should love and respect your mom at all times, and also when things get out of hand you go to your home and she stays at hers.
2007-02-20 05:10:32 · answer #6 · answered by Keysha R 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋