What is expected of me? Right now I just sort of lay there and let him guide me through it. What does a guy want a girl to do? How can I knock his socks off?
2007-02-20 04:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by Carley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most guys do not like it if you just lie there. React, moan, wiggle, kiss, lick...whatever.
2007-02-20 05:00:06 · answer #1 · answered by Jessy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Laying there like a cadaver is fine, but you need to also add atmosphere. You this by time your "ooh" sounds. As he is deeply penetrating in you, you make that "ooh sound" as if he's really getting into the passion within your soul.
Some girls have the timing off which is annoying. But you shouldn't always make the same "ooh" sound. This is where creative atmosphere-ism makes your role in sex more intriguing. Sometimes, make a lower toned, "oh yeah" and at other times, just whimper. Sometimes say "harder" as his "ding" is going out of you. Touch his chest or touch his biceps. Every now and then, tell him vulgarly to "f" you. Don't get overly vulgar like a truck driver, but a few dirty words now and then is a turn on. Also, describe his "ding" and how great it feels. Tell him you really like the way it feels.
Whatever you do, be wet inside of your vagina. To a man, when he is penetrating a woman while she's wet, the feeling is surreal and even magical. That means your role is one of responsibility meaning, that you should not let him go inside you until you are self-lubricated.
I guess the other role is for you to look your best so that he wants to have sex with you. You do this with exercise and doing things to make yourself feel pretty.
2007-02-20 13:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take charge. Get on top. Make the first move. Let him know what you want. I don't like it when a woman just lies there. Touch him, suck him, play with him and then when you're through exciting him and you are hot let him take over. Definitely make it a two way enjoyment. If you need me to show you, give me a call. Only kidding. Good luck.
2007-02-20 13:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by voodoo man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't sound ready to knock any socks off. The first few times try to let him guide you. As you get more comfortable, learn what you like, learn what he likes, communicate and go for it.
One of the great things about sleeping with someone new is learning their style.
2007-02-20 13:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just throw it back to him. When I say that I mean move your hips in motion with his when he's on top of you. A guy loves it when woman throws it back at him. Also try to rub your hands up and down his back, and on his butt as well. Try sucking on his neck or kissing him while he's making love to you. Also ask him what he would like for you to do in particular and that can help you as well. Every guy is different, and some of them like really kinky things, and some like to keep it basic, but try these ideas I gave you, and he's sure to like it.
2007-02-20 13:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In term of actions from girls, what guys want from girls is the girls' reactions.
The guy do something, the girl react.
If the guy like the girl's reactions, the guy will keep doing the same actions until he want to do something else.
What kind of reactions a guy like depends on each guy, it's best if the girl subtly figure it out on what kind of reactions he likes from her and then subtly guide him so he could achieve his desired reactions from her.
The same goes for the guy, it's best if the guy subtly figure it out on how he could get the reactions he likes from her and then subtly guide her so he could achieve his desired reactions from her.
2007-02-21 09:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off u need to be a little more decisive and controling and get on top and let him lay there just take control do what u like and feels good to u, he will like it
2007-02-20 13:00:52 · answer #7 · answered by smalltd28 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are way to YOUNG to asking this kind of question. Just remember "WHEN YOU PLAY WITH FIRE YOU WILL GET BURNED". Go to school and learn something that will help you when you are grown up.
2007-02-20 13:05:39 · answer #8 · answered by Monty L 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is suppose to be mutual enjoyment. If your not enjoying it, don't do it until you are old enough to know what you are doing.
2007-02-20 13:01:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dominate him, get on top of him or bend over like a dog trust me, his socks will *** off
2007-02-20 13:01:45 · answer #10 · answered by CarlosDeLargos 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋