Right i asked a Q earlier sayin i lyked this guy, nd he mite ask out this ugly gal, nd i've liked him for a year...and im in highschool...you all told me to ask him out! I have a rule almost NEVER to ask out a guy, and plus did i mention he's popular! I'd get slagged for life. Apparently he liked 3 girls, narrowed it down to one, and i WAS NOT in the three, i'd b scared shhitless! Any other Ideas...?
If you wanna know what my last Q was to help you answer this one its below:
Im in High school. This guy who i liked for a year, asked out this girl, me and my best friend were crying for the whole night when he asked her out, they broke up, and i like him more than ever! He's Mr Perfect too me, I hope you guys understand me and dont say GROW UP! or WHO cares? or GET A LIFE!
I've liked him for a year, and he has the hots for this ugly gal! He likes me in that way 20-35% out of a 100% i reckon. What do i do, i dont want to tell him to his face i like him, but he's the long term kinnda guy, and i dont want toi be waiting for another year too have him?!
2007-02-20 04:51:37 · 26 answers · asked by CompleteCreation90 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I BELIEVE GUYS SHOULD ALWAYS ASK OUT THE GIRL!!
AND HE'S POPULAR!
2007-02-20 04:52:25 · update #1
get to know him in a friendly way (it may kill you, but i got my boyfriend after being freinds for 4 years) but let him know its a little more than friendship that your after by making subtle things, like touching his arm, or playing with your hair when your together. eventually he should get the hint and ask you out
2007-02-20 04:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep your attitude about that stupid rule of “guys should always ask a girl out”, you might end up never finding a nice guy for you.
That rule might have been the “thing” long time ago, but not anymore. There is nothing wrong with a girl asking out a guy. If you like for him to ask out, then you can always make the first move by only asking him to go out to have some fun or whatever. I’m sure he will then ask you out on a serious date later when he realizes you like him (as long he actually likes you).
I don’t say girls must ask all the time, but if you like someone, you should not wait for him to ask you out, as he might never know you exist! Why would you ruin what could be your only chance to find someone special? To me, that is ridiculous. No offense, but I really think you need to snap out of it, and go for what you want. Is your life, and nobody else will ever take good care of you as yourself.
And don’t be scared if he rejects you. Not always things work out the way we want. You said he likes this “ugly” gal. Well, obviously he doesn’t see her that ugly, does he now?
Still, go and ask him out, you’ll never know until you try!
Good luck.
2007-02-20 05:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask before you have another year of torment, but remember, you might think that this other girl is ugly but that doesn't mean that he sees her the same way, you might have to come to terms with the fact he want's to be with her. If he does knock you back and everyone starts to make fun of you, just say "hey, at least I had the guts to ask him out, so he turned me down, so what" In this day and age you don't wait around for the guys to make the first move.
2007-02-20 04:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well his social status shouldnt impact on the way 2 people feel about each other. IF its a mutual feeling then no matter what he will go out with you. Love has no borders nor boundries. love is patient kind and caring. Love doesnt judge. Now, Since he likes 3 girls chances are those girls dont like him back or he doesnt talk to them. How you found out that he even liked 3 girls should mean that you have a friend that knows or talks to him or your friends with him or you are just a big time stalker lol (no offence lol) But anyways, my suggestion to you is to become friends with him, all relationships start off like that. Some relationships your friends with that person and thats all you will ever be, but at least you got the chance to meet them and talk to them thats all that really matters. First question your probally thinking, How do i become friends with him hes soo populer? You have to really work at this and find the courage in you to do this, just randomly start a conversation with him when hes by himself, you can talk about anything of your liking but remember not to make it obvious you like him meaning nooo stuttering, no playing with your hair, or dont look anxious.. some people tend to do that when they like someone and make it really really obvious. Second thing be sure you guys have no silent moments because it would make both of you feel uncomfortable... ITs best you try to approch him where no one is around and your friends are not there so you both wont feel uncofortable. So this would usually be late after school or like mid day sort of thing or even early morning. Never ever write a note to him and just randomly start talking like that, He will either laugh at the fact that you are so shy to talk to him in perosn you had to write a note, and then he might either show his friends it etc... Make sure when your done speaking to him to mention By the way do you have msn... and of course he will give it to you start just slowly talking to him more and more on there and you guys will become friends in no time. Once you become friends then you can make a safe decision whether you liked him because he was attractive or his personality... And same for him. If you both like each others personality and are attracted to each other then you have a match made from heave.
Just try it you will never know to your try.... I know its hard but we all have to do it sometimes.... There is a first for everything. Even if it doesnt go to well at least you will go home saying at least you tried.... and thing you really have nothing to lose.... and nobody can ever take away your pride unless you let them... And remember its better to have tryed then to never of tryed at all.
Trust me you will have less regrets in life if you live by that motto...
Best of wishes kesha...
2007-02-20 05:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... if you believe that a guy should always ask the girl out and never the other way around.... then no one can really help you.... That's a very narrowminded, sterotypical view you have, and if you really want this guy you are going to have to talk to him and tell him that you like him, instead of just crying about it.
2007-02-20 04:58:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you prove to the guy that your the girl for him get to know him etc.
Or you could give up and find another guy, i once had a crush on a girl and i could not think about anything else. It could be the same in your case.
2007-02-20 04:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Topgear is my life! TG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a rabbit livin in the storage ,3 albino squirrel nests in the tree, kinfolk of racoons livin in the pals attic,,2cats in the abode ,2 anole lizards in my little ones room ,and a hermit crab in the different,35 gal tank with guppies in the livin rm.a dachsund bittin each and every of the chair legs ...oh and a Partridge kinfolk marathon on the tube
2016-10-02 11:02:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like this guy will be asking you out. So, since you don't believe in asking guys out, maybe you should try and meet some guys who are actually interested in you.
2007-02-20 04:55:29 · answer #8 · answered by Go Bears! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a brain implant. Sex is all in the brain, anyway. This guy is on the way to getting fat & wrinkly. You're only fooling yourself...that is, your reptilian self is overriding your real self.
Get a nice clean toy. Forget mammals. They're dirty, disease-ridden, disgusting sloths.
qwerty
2007-02-20 05:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...First you need to be mature enough to enter a mature relationship. With that said you need to drop your rules. In life people learn from the mistakes/decisions they make. You may not be one of his top 3 but if you like him then you need to be mature enough to go for him.
Please listen here...You need to drop your stupid rule because if you don't then you'll lose out on a lot of great opportunities to relationships. I also need to put it into place that you're just in highschool but if you want a mature relationship then you must be mature yourself...
2007-02-20 04:58:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋