say i wait one day to call a girl after our first date and it went well. when i call she doesnt pick up and i leave a message for her to call me back... what should i do?
2007-02-20 04:34:11 · 10 answers · asked by lostwords8283 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Allow for the possibility she has a life and wasn't waiting by the phone for you to call. Maybe she had a busy day at work or some kind of emergency.
If you still haven't heard from her in a day or two, call again and just say that you had a good time with her and would like to see her again. If you don't hear back from her after the second call, move on and forget about her.
2007-02-20 04:40:14 · answer #1 · answered by Justin H 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very unlikelythat she did not get themessage. although she could had erased it and forgot to write down the number or something. Hightly unikely though. Then again girls don't like caling guys. Its up to the guy to make the move. Do call her 1 more time and invite her out. If she comes up with some dumb excuse then move on.
2007-02-20 04:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you left her a message to call you back, give her time to do that. If she does not, try again. But dont be a bug-a-boo, either. I usually have a 3 call rule.....I will call you 3 times and leave detailed messages and if you still dont call back......f**k'em and move on.....Good Luck!
2007-02-20 04:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Wait for her to call back.
She got the message... A guy phoning after one day means he is interested in her, and enjoyed the date.
The ball is in her court, it is her decision to make the next move.
2007-02-20 04:38:30 · answer #4 · answered by freezie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is wait...you don't wanna be a stalker, so if she was into you she'll call you back. But don't wait by the phone cause then you'll be just plain desperate..
2007-02-20 04:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by foreveraaliayh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you have left her a message, don't contact her about the date again until she contact you.
2007-02-20 06:09:57 · answer #6 · answered by E A C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her if you havnt if she aint there maybe she will call you back if the date went good
2007-02-20 04:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Kala♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't call back, send one more text msg and leave it alone. If she wants to get with you she will.
good luck & bless
2007-02-20 04:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
shes probably just busy. no worries mate.
2007-02-20 04:38:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ni-Kay! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time ... maybe she didn't think it went that great ... or maybe she is just buesy
2007-02-20 04:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋