so... first he married some lady, then he got divorced. Then, he married another lady and had two kids, but then got divorced. THEN, he married my mom and had me. While my mome was pregnant, he was having an affair!!! My mom found out (she saw them kissing) and decided to give him another chance, but he still presumed the affair. They got a divorce. And a month after they seperated, he married the women that he was having an affair with. He moved to MEXICO, not NEW MEXICO, MEXICO!!! So.. then i only saw him like once or twice a year. Then after about five years, he got another divorce. Now, he married some mexican chick thats 26! HE's 51!!! His oldest daughter is like 20 or something!!! so his new wife and his sister could be sisters!!! His new wife wants kids.... so now they're probablly getting a divorce soon and then he'll get married again.
SO WHAT ARE YOUR OPINIONS ON MY DAD??? IS THIS NORMAL OR... JUST TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK... PLEASE!!!
THANKS!
2007-02-20 04:33:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is not normal at all. This guy just cant stay with one woman. He is trailer trash. Forget him, concentrate on your mother. Dont make the same mistakes.
You sound like a good person.
Your father sounds like a bum. Dont take him serious.
Be polite when he is around, afterall, he is your father.
But this guy is about as full of crap as one can get.
I doubt he knows what commitment or love are, let alone obligation.
I wish you the best.
2007-02-20 04:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your dad clearly has commitment issues - LOL!!! Jeezus - what a guy? I kinda lost track there, but that's 5 or 6 marriages and 3 or 4 kids - wow. It's not normal.
Triumph of optimism over experience I'd say...
2007-02-20 12:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by Skidoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like a episode from Jerry Springer. Your dad has some issues and not good ones either sounds like he may need to get some counseling and figure out what he wants in his life.
2007-02-20 12:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married 5-6 times? I'd say you're dad is a little insecure about himself and he really shouldn't get married anymore, since it doesn't mean anything to him.
2007-02-20 12:38:03 · answer #4 · answered by Undomestic Goddess 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as your dad has been involved in your life throughout all this (i didnt quite read all of it cuz it was long & confusing) I wouldnt care who he chooses in his personal life....i would just be worried if he could be a good father to me and still maintain a great relationship, even if he is dating someone really young.
2007-02-20 12:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ARE U SERIOUS where does he get his energy did fall in fountain of youth or what? in fact u could make this ur 'break the ice "story for parties and such dos ,
2007-02-20 12:42:08 · answer #6 · answered by rupali k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel sorry for him Sweetie. He's searching for something he'll never find. What's missing for him is not out there it's inside himself. He needs major help emotionally and probably doesn't even know it.
2007-02-20 12:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by mjm52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not normal. He's messed up. What's your opinion of your Dad? He gets married more often then someone sees their dentist!
2007-02-20 12:40:26 · answer #8 · answered by sandnickel2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
His emotional growth is stunted and he hasn't matured since he was a teenager it sounds like.
2007-02-20 13:16:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sort of feel sad for your father. to be that age and STILL not have his sh it together? pathetic.
i hope you do well in life.
2007-02-20 12:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋