my chick is in another country and lately she doesnt have time for me she went to another country to go to university she is always busy or in class or out with her friends and she doesnt tell me anything anymore i have to drag it out of her plz tell me what to do
2007-02-20 04:27:51 · 6 answers · asked by tiny g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she isn't making time for you and sharing what is going on in her life when you do communicate, she isn't really your girl anymore and it is time to move on...she already has.
She likely hasn't told you she has either because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings and hopes that it will be easier to gradually ease out by not responding to you over time and you will decide to move on and that way she won't have to be the "bad" guy, or she wants to keep you in the wings a "spare" or someone to fall back on if and when things don't work out like she wants them to where she is at right now.
What might ease your pain a bit is to tell her that since you are both so far apart, you think it is best that you both see other people (and then really go out and start seeing other girls), but that you value her as a person and would like to remain friends and keep in touch. If she is avoiding you because she doesn't want to hurt you or give you false hopes, this would take the pressure off of that situation and she might be more likely to stay in contact with you (but don't get or keep your hopes up that things will work out long term...this is just to a way to keep the door open and if it is meant to be, it will work out over time).
Good luck!
2007-02-20 04:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to say but just forget about her. If she doesn't have time for you then why try to make her. Clearly you are not on her mind right now she has other things to focus on as getting her education. Dont waste your time anymore. Good Luck
2007-02-20 04:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ally R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this sadly means the relaitionship isnt quite working!! she is ou on her own so no telling what she could be doing you know what best so decide a girl who doesnt have time for me or a girl i have all mine
2007-02-20 04:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by christina 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's not worth it. if you love someone no matter how busy you are you make time for them, and if shes not doing that for you, obviously she doesn't feel the same way you do. find someone who lives closer to you and who wants to spend time with you
2007-02-20 04:40:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it! She's met someone new, and it's about time you moved on too!
2007-02-20 04:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by cane_my_bottom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to tell her it's time to start seeing other people because if she isn't already she's most likely thinking about it from what you said is my opinion sorry hun :(
2007-02-20 04:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by KarenLynne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋