So I found out that i really like this guy. Hes cute and funny, nice smart athletic and pretty creative But the thing is, is that there are so many "popular girls" around him all the time making him a little tiny bit worse to hangout with every day. I keep telling myself "no you dont like him" but my core is telling me "yes you do like him!" And he has been flirting with me, so its driving me crazy. I tell myself i dont want to like him, buti do! what should i do? I know it sounds like I like him but, hes this really flirtatious guy and he loves to make people laugh, and i dont think its olny hes fliting with, its driving me crazy! Its like one second i feel like "wow hes so great" but then the next its like "jeez hes so obnoxious!" Any suggestions of what to do??
2007-02-20 04:24:44 · 8 answers · asked by maddy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont like him because hes popular, i dont care about that! I like him because of his personality. But another part of me is telling me that "no NONOno! You dont like him", why is this even happening??
2007-02-20 04:36:15 · update #1
You are doomed unless you start to focus on what it is that you DO want. Worse yet is that unless you change your way of thinking, the next one will be the same, so it`s worth the effort.
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2007-02-20 04:36:06 · answer #1 · answered by canron4peace 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally feel the same way about a guy. I love it when I'm a around him he makes me feel good but when hes hanging around other girls the way he does me i just get so mad and say to my self heck with him i don't like him and i feel that way the rest of the day till the next i see him and the cycle starts again.What i and u should do is just move on accept it enjoy when hes around u and don't get heads over heels or you'll have major trouble like i almost did.Best of luck
2007-02-20 12:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok 2 flirt but keep in mind, he hasn't told u how he feels.So this is a fantasy relationship until he tells u that he likes u. Try to spend time with ur friends or other guys for that matter to keep ur mind off him. Guys are flattered when they KNOW that u like them but, it doesn't mean that they wanna b w/u. My advice - Find someone who isn't playing childish games & feels the SAME way that u do. Life's too short to waste time when the "right" person is out there for u.
2007-02-20 12:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by A Smart Chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you ask him hun? Ask him if he is into you, or if he is flirting because he knows he can. Who cares about popularity! If thats all he's about then you don't want him anyway. But right now you do want him and if you want him it will make you look a whole lot better if you go after what you want. COME ON GIRL you can do this! Wear your hottest outfit and strut it hun! lol GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-20 12:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Amber Vance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, if you two ever ended up together could you picture him still flirting with other girls and having to constantly worry about whether he's trust-worthy? I guess it really depends on how much drama you are willing to put up with, and if you don't mind punching a ***** or two.
2007-02-20 12:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by Kristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be yourself. This is the advise my grandparents gave me and they have been married over 55 years. I have a happy marriage because of this advise they have to love you for who you are. My mom used this same advise when she married my father and they have been married over 25 years. allways be yourself and the right person will accept you for who you are. Also remeber feelings are not facts if you really dont want to like him you can eventually change your feelings towards him
2007-02-20 12:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by wombatwaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may just like him because hes popular with other girls-
but if you really have feelings for him-make a move on him-
2007-02-20 12:33:49 · answer #7 · answered by mr.bigz 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As Oprah would say...you have that inner voice that is telling you...you hear it...I know you do...it is up to you to hear it though....I hear what it is saying just in the word's you are writing....clear as day to me....but you have to hear it for yourself...because you are the only one that can decide for you...Good luck.
2007-02-20 12:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋