so i told this girl was into her months ago. but she said she wasnt looking for anything right now. we were good friends. and we hung out alot. talked on the phone alot. i gave her a bday gift. she gave me a bday gift. we see each other alot. even though she said what she said months ago. it felt like there was something. so i asked her. if there was still anything beyond friendship. i reminded her about what i said months ago. but she says she didnt mean to lead me into something more and just wants to be friends. i also gave her a custom card and chocolate on vday btw. anyway. so thats that. in a way im an idiot thinking there would be still some hope. what im question is how to deal with just being friends with her. which is impossible. if im around her. my feelings are still there. i dont want to hate her or avoid her. i dont know. but i know ive lost hope. im very depressed right now since i thought there really was something there but there wasnt.
2007-02-20 04:22:21 · 7 answers · asked by funky_homosapien 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont chase do it. If u chase then she'll run, trust me. DONT CHASE HER, be her friend. See what happens.
2007-02-20 04:26:49 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm all for co-sleeping between a parent and their child. This, frankly, sounds absurd. Like mentioned above, a 7 year old doesn't know about the precautions to take to ensure safe co-sleeping as they are still, obviously, a child. Also why is she making her 7 year old wake at 5 AM to give the baby a bottle? It sounds like your friend is lazy and isn't taking her role as a mother seriously.
2016-05-23 22:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're in denial that nothing can ever be between you two. I know it's hard and easier said than done but you need to just accept what she's willing to give you and don't mistake any nice gesture as something else. There are SO MANY other girls out there. Yes it's cliche, but I have been in love once or twice, and had crushes. You get over these people with time and wonder why you didn't pull your head outta the clouds sooner. Personally it sounds like your investing too much into her when you should do it for someone else who deserves it.
2007-02-20 04:29:19 · answer #3 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus keep ur frndship with her for a litle bit more time.. comfort her show her that u really care about her . i am damn sure dat one day will come when she'll come to u n both of u will get along very well.
all d best.
2007-02-20 04:26:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, "lets be friends" means, she doesn't find you attractive and will never have sex with you, but she will use you when she is bored, needs money, a ride, an exscuse, etc . . . get the idea,
get rid of her
2007-02-20 04:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cannot handle just being friends with her, then don't. Move on and find someone else.
2007-02-20 04:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead
2007-02-20 04:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋