6 months ago I met my friend...at the time he was only an acquaintance, but today he is a very special friend. We have lots of things in common and really strong connection. I never realized that our friendship would come to this level. He has made several comments about how beautiful or intelligent I am. We have gotten really close and I enjoy being his friend. The other day we were talking about something and I said “are you my twin brother?" and he said “lol...I hope not", and I asked him” ohh why not?" He was like “some things are better left unsaid"- in a positive way
Also he said he likes me but how do I really know whether he likes me as a friend. I have given some positives signs to him
So should I make the first move or just wait patiently?
2007-02-20 04:22:05 · 11 answers · asked by maria 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is one thing i have learned in this life time- it is the definition of "Somethings are better left unsaid." I knew a boy in college who would respond that way any time we talked about things having to do with our closeness... and i always thought that it meant "uninterested". Boy was i wrong - We've been living together for almost a year now. He explained to me later on he just said that because he was afraid of my reactions, and afraid effect our "amazing connection."
Now, sometimes waiting is the best (because this is always the most exciting part of any relationship). But keep dropping hints, doing the sweet things, and it will blossom... and it will be wonderful, because you have started with something so strong. Good luck!
2007-02-20 04:30:40 · answer #1 · answered by PiaAntonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him how he feels about you, whether he just wants friendship from you or more.. I know it might be uncomfortable, but its usually the best way to get your answers. You could start by asking if he likes someone, then go from there..
The whole I don't want to ruin the friendship thing.. That's a myth. I've never had a problem worrying about ruining a friendship over someone I liked that was a friend.. You never know.. it could end or last a long time. My guy friends said the same thing...
2007-02-20 12:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by C C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, i think if he really wants you more than just a friend, you'd better wait for him to take the first step! all you have to do is to show some more positive signs and assure him that if he proposes u , you wouldn't rejects him, kill this fear inside him! you know guys are afraid of being rejected, they're mostly more proud than to be rejected... so they don't take much risk!!! just be kind and cool to him as usual and DON'T call him a brother or something like that ;-) and if you got some other positive signs in return, look straightly into his eyes in order to show your feelings back at him... this way you'll make a DEEP impression...no doubt :-P
Good Luck
:-)
2007-02-20 12:39:08 · answer #3 · answered by *Shiny*** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you and you have given him some positive signs,that's good enough 'you should wait patiently.But the flip side is that he may be a shy guy in which case you need to make the move.
2007-02-20 12:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Igirigi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A friend usually end up being our bf, thats normal. Thing happen coz of stuff both likes together. I think why not you make the first move if you do like him. Its ok to do it. And if the answer is not, then just continue to be friends.
2007-02-20 12:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and make the first move.. do something special though. Next time he's at your house, or your at his just excuse yourself and go to the restroom and undress, then return fully nude and tell him you want to become better friends.
Then do it with him over and over.
2007-02-20 12:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by Professor Chaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you obviously want to bed him, so I suggest that the next time it seems appropriate, such as after a compliment or a nice gesture, you give him a kiss on the cheek. If he turns to face you after the kiss, kiss him on the lips.
2007-02-20 12:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Martin Pedersen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait until you know for sure... you don't want to ruin a good friendship or make it awkward. If he likes you, I'm sure it will come out soon enough!
2007-02-20 12:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your not sure, u should probably wait 'cause what if you make the first move and he doesn't want to then your friendship will become really weird.
2007-02-20 12:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a little longer, and while your waiting, commpliment em'
cuz its so obvious he does like you.
2007-02-20 12:27:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋