well i have been dating this guy for about a mon. and a half and i have had a crush on him since the 6th grade and he asked me out and i thought we had alot in common but the longer we were together the more i began to realize that we dont have that much in common and all the little things that i use to think were cute when we first got together now annoy me. i dunno what to do. i dont want him to get hurt bc everyone says hes sprung over me but everyone also says that i should stop trying to make everyone else happy and make myself happy. what do i do?
2007-02-20 04:16:23 · 16 answers · asked by Sam M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't see it going anywhere, you should waste his or your own time living a lie. Things won't get better, if the quirks are annoying now, they'll get worse over time.
He'll get over it. As long as you're honest and direct and not an outright jerk about the whole thing, it shouldn't be too much of a big deal. It's only been a month or so.
2007-02-20 04:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 do wat u feel is right if u feel ur in an annoying relationship u shouldnt have 2 stay in it if u dont want 2 love hurts and if he's jus sprung over u he will get over it trust me after like the 3rd time he asks u 2 take him back most likely he will jus say 4get it and move on but then u have 2 make sure u dont start wantin him back cuz then he will see that and take control of the situation
2007-02-20 04:24:03 · answer #2 · answered by thatchickuwannawife717 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you would feel bad, but you need to break up with him. I had a crush on my first boyfriend the min I saw him. A year later we started to go out. I soon found out that we had nothing in common, but i didn't want to break up with him because he was sweet and SO nice. A couple of months later he decided to break up with me with the all time famous line "Its me not you". I was really upset, and then i realised that i was only upset because I didn't get to break up with him first. If you have nothing in common you should definitely not stay with him.
2007-02-20 04:24:09 · answer #3 · answered by tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...so it boils down to you giving up your own happiness for someone elses. When you start feeling annoyed by someone, and feeling like you two are not on the same page anymore, it's time to say hasta la vista baby. Sure, he'll be hurt, but I think he'd be more hurt knowing you're staying with him and don't really like him anymore.
2007-02-20 04:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by glittereyedg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say to make yourself happy. If he is really sprunge over you then he should be able to let you go. One advice is don't try to change him. That's probably the one mistake you could make. I really hope this helps. ^_^
2007-02-20 04:21:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kotoko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have 2 potions either remake urself or leave him.
d second option is coz d fault is in u. it was his stupid thngs that attracted u earlier. now those thngs disturb u. so jus share dis wid ur bf . may be if both of u talk together some solution might come out!!
all the best
2007-02-20 04:21:24 · answer #6 · answered by nissi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really making yourself happy,its doing the right thing. Why be with someone that you have nothing that you can talk about,so you should let him no that he is not the one for you and he needs to move on..
2007-02-20 04:35:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you saying is that you are going to make yourself miserable to make this guy happy. Live for yourself, be with someone you want to be with. In the end this guy will appreciate it also.
2007-02-20 04:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by krupsk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no good way to break up just tell him you dont feel the same, the longer you wait to tell him the more pain is involved
2007-02-20 04:20:30 · answer #9 · answered by tiny g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do talk with him about dating others as you are not ready for a exclusive relationship at this time...etc...
You haven't been together that long, and the earlier the better.
2007-02-20 04:22:58 · answer #10 · answered by outtahere2day 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋