ok I have been with my girlfrined for 7 mo now and i messed up the other day and lied to her 4 the 1st time.I felt as if something was wrong my gut was telling me something was not right. I asked her and she said she was ok other then a few things she was stressed out about family,school.etc. but nothing else.Well i did not feel as if that were the truth. awhile ago we had broken up for a few weeks because of the same thing,said she was going threw so many things she just needed a break. well during that break her x boy frend was textn her and calling her. She was honest with me she came right out and told me.I said ok take ur time figure out where u are and I will be here , I love uand care about u my door is always open.So she came back and we were fine.i felt something was wrong so i looked in her phone and i seen that her n her x were talking again.I aksd her and she said it was nothing then she asked me how i kenw.i lied and told her someone told me.she found out n we broke up.
2007-02-20 04:15:20 · 3 answers · asked by who knows 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im trying to get her back but she is still mad at me for a lie I told her.I called her today and asked her if she wanted to go out for dinner tonight.she works till about 9 p.m and she said she was going to go home and go to sleep.casue she was tired. I asked her if she missed me she said that was a loaded question. and that she is still mad at me.when I asked her about going out tonight she said maybe next week? we dated for 7 mo. and it ended last monday cause i lied to her. im trying to see if she is thinking about me as much as im thinking about her. from a girls point of view, is she? does she miss me as much as i miss her? this is our first fight in 7 mo. perfect relationship.great friends and great boyfriend/girlfreind.she loves me and cares alot about me but said i hurt her really bad and she needs time to get over being mad at me.i dont understand it? is that normal? or is she stringing me along? i have not talked to her much since last monday.i talked 2 her 4 an hour friday?
2007-02-20 04:16:11 · update #1
she text me sunday "hope you had a good weekend, night.??
2007-02-20 04:52:24 · update #2
She feels like you invaded her privacy, but she totally over reacted by breakig up with you. If it only took an argument as small as this to break up your relationship, she's probably not that into the relationship anymore. Talk to her for some closure.. find out the truth about why she is being so upset with you lately & ask her straight out if you guys can be together or not. If she doesn't say "yes" and gives you a shady answer, then move on because she will just string you along. Sorry that it didn't work out, good luck!
2007-02-20 04:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by peaches87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it ended cos you lied to her this one time. I think she is using this lie as an excuse to break up with you for good. She has been lying to you many times by talking to her ex and lying to you about it. It looks like she has feelings for the ex. Your one lie was a way out for her. The way I see it, the relationship started to end the time she decided to continue talking to her ex and not telling you about it.
Take this opportunity as a gift and move on.She gave you no reason to trust her by lying to you. Move on and find someone better.
2007-02-20 12:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u really ****** up and u need to move on im so sry 4 ur loss but women HATE liars sry again
good luck
2007-02-20 12:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by Sage Elizabethhh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋