I really can't seem to get him. So here goes the short version.
A. We're coworkers. But I'd say we were pretty good friends.
B. When we are having a conversation with a large group he seems to keep all his attention on me.
C. He'll always accidentally touch me, or he won't move away from my touch.
D. He always hugs me. And he hugs me last, which in one of my guy friends opinion thats a good thing...
E. People think we are dating. Or say we should date. I've had people ask me if he's my boyfriend.
F. He always does the little things for me. He'll always grab my things.
G. He smiles a lot.
Right. So since he wasn't doing anything and since all the people who had responded to this question before said yes he likes you I took a big step gave him a valentine and told him I like you. Now, it's been what a week and he hasn't said anything about it. He was out of town for the long weekend. Anyways, yesterday was the first time we saw each other since I told him. See additional details!!!!
2007-02-20 04:09:18 · 9 answers · asked by Ni-Kay! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Continuing on...Nothing seemed weird. At least I don't think so. I felt like he acted the same. He smiled still a lot. I felt like though maybe something had changed and that it was a better change. I don't know. Any ideas on what to look for??? I'm at such a loss, I mean really wouldn't he have said anything by now?
2007-02-20 04:10:12 · update #1
It sounds like he is shy. I would say that you should get him to go get a coffee with you or go to lunch together.
If that works, then suggest a restaurant nearby and tell him that you are in the mood for that type of food. Ask him if he would go with you so you don't have to eat alone.
He might open up in one of those places and your relationship will grow from there. If he does not open up, then you may have to ask him how he feels about a relationship.
Take care,
Troy
2007-02-20 04:19:21 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he does like you, but maybe he's the shy type or the non committment type or maybe hes just not ready. My opinion is that you shouldn't worry, coz it sounds like he's waiting for the moment, that special first sparky moment.
2007-02-20 12:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by M&U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no doubts that he will tell you his feelings for you too, pretty soon. But all guys are different: he just needs some more time than usual to think it over.
2007-02-20 12:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by julia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm thinking that when he found out that you like him that he fouind it in shock and he is trying to figure out his feelings for you but i think he likes you,on the alter omega that he might just find you as a good friend and does those things for you and he could be gay but i dont think so i think he really likes you so good luck
2007-02-20 12:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by braves2rule 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I he doesn't say anything you go and ask him, sometimes, women have to take the first step, because we men want to know if the girl is interested in us. Ask him....
2007-02-20 12:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by !!!D@VE!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe because you like him you notice the little things that happen, I think there is a possibility that he likes you.
2007-02-20 12:12:05 · answer #6 · answered by apple|addikt. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you had to ask. He's definately got you on his radar. He really seems nice too. Good luck.
2007-02-20 12:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by ingham_elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as a guy, i would say yes he likes you. that kind of behavior definitely means he likes you
2007-02-20 12:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should just chill and act like nothing happened. thats wat i wud do. cuz guys like u alot more if they dont think u like them cuz in their eyes if u do show them......... most of the time they think u feining
2007-02-20 12:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by najaah r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋