I have a best guy friend. We have been friends for about 2 1/2 years. We started out dating and that didn't work so we didn't talk for about a year. Then, he called out of the blue and we started hanging out again. He wanted to me to meet his best guy friend (from CT we are in OH) and that night we ended up being intimate. We did that several more times. I finally asked how he felt about me and he said he couldn't find anything wrong with me but didn't know how he felt. So, a few months later (after not talking to my guy friend for awhile) I met a new guy. We were together for 4 months. My guy friend was very jealous. Finally, I broke up with my boyfriend and started hanging out with guy friend again. He told me I excited him and put my hand in his lap! Now, I have made comments about doing stuff and he is avoiding me. I can't get over him and really love him. What should I do?
2007-02-20 04:07:41 · 3 answers · asked by landime9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be his puppet! You need to find someone who is really into you! Not just when you are with someone else but always! This guy only seems interested in what he can't have - namely you when you are with someone else! There is no real way you could ever have this guy the way you want; as a boyfriend. He will not commit. So, leave him alone! For your sanity! PLEASE! I see too many girls wasting their time on unwilling lovers like this and - trust me - they always get hurt! The reason you can't get over him is not because you love him but because you don't know what to do and don't want to let go of him till you are certain it is over. Well, it's over! Find yourself someone new and take it slow! You should enjoy being in a relationship with someone; not constantly worrying if he's really into you! Come on! 2+ years and he's still not sure!?! Walk away from this one!
2007-02-20 04:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a therapist
2007-02-20 12:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by amanda m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that u love him and wanna be into in that relationship again.
2007-02-20 12:11:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋