15 and engaged?

Question

im 15 and my boyfriend is 18 I asked him to marry me and he said yes now we are engaged buh i have a problem i want a ring buh i dont kno how to tell him i want one even though i kno a ring does not matter ....i kno im very young but we are juss engaged were going to see what happends alopng the road and when im 18 and if we are still together well get married but were juss engaed im not worried about the wedding i just want a ring lol how should i ask him or should i just for get about it nd wait nd see if he gets me one but my bf is not really the romantic type what should i do should i ask and how

Answer 1

you need "full stops" rather than an engagement ring, i got out of breath just reading your question.

You just want the ring, that just about shows how ready you are for marriage, you are way too young, just buy a ring, don't even consider marriage.

Answer 2

Call me old-fashioned but I think the guy should propose marriage. If he whole-heartedly wanted to marry you, he would have asked you and presented a ring. Does he think you are "engaged"? (like actually used that word) Because I personally don't believe that simple conversations about a potential marriage constitute engagement--you need something more.Giving a ring is not a "romantic thing" it is a way a guy "puts his money where his mouth is" so to speak. I think this guy may be agreeing with whatever you say just to keep you around, for whatever reason. Marriage is forever, and not something to be taken lightly. You are so young! Marriage is a personal decision, so I'm not going to be like everyone else and say that you are too young but keep in mind this is "forever"! I'd talk more about this whole actually "being engaged" thing before saying "hey I want a ring". Good luck.

Answer 3

If I were you I'd wait to see if he gets you one and if he doesn't then that doesn't matter. Personally I think that if the two of you still want to get married when your 18 this is when you should get the ring. This is because people's opinions and views change a lot between the ages of 15 - 18. If you want to still marry him at the age of 18, then that is when you should get your ring. Until then just wait and see what happens

Answer 4

there is not any criminal age to be engaged. i visit declare which you're very youthful. i became into mature for my age to at 15 yet I truthfully have had a minimum of 6 boyfriends from the time i became into 15 to 21. i'm married now at 23 and that i like it yet 15 is kinda youthful to be that severe. wait till after extreme college then in case you're nevertheless jointly then get engaged.

Answer 5

So you're what, a freshman in high school?

Biology homework and a Sweet Sixteen party should be higher on your list than an engagement ring. You are entirely too young to even think about getting engaged. You can't even hold a job yet! (Most places, you need to be sixteen!)

And like other answerers said "if we're still together" is a ridiculous statement. When you agree to marry someone, this is not how you talk. "If we're still together we'll go to prom" might be a better statement for you.

Answer 6

I don't want to come off rude because I am not trying to be, but you are no where near ready to get married if your issue right now is a ring. I am 24, and just got married in November even though I have 2 kids and had my first when I was only 16. There is absolutely no reason to rush. Be 15!!!

Answer 7

This is absurd. You are not engaged-you are going steady. If you were adult enough to be getting married--which is what being engaged means--the kinds of things you need to be thinking about are where will you live, how will you support yourselves, etc--real life concerns-NOT you asking him to get engaged and then asking him to give you a ring! Cool your jets until you have your life in gear first-your education, an income, a place to live, etc...otherwise, you'll find yourself a bery young girl with very adult problems in the near future, and there is nothing sweet or romantic about that.

Answer 8

sweetheart your 15 & engaged........
no offence but you are way to immature to be engaged!at your age you should be thinking about:
school
friends
getting your licence
homework
a job

im sure it's illegal at your age to be engaged?
your boyfriend is older than you & should know better.
im sure your parents don't know anything about this or they would have put a stop to it a long time ago!

a ring is a materialistic object that doesn't add value to life but dear sweet child if you dwell on this for to long you are wasting precious time & lose your innocence.
don't grow up so quick, it's not as fun as you think!!!

rather wait a long while to see where this relationship goes & in a few years if the both of you still realise that this is what you want,then go for it!
by then you will be much more mature to deal with life & what it has to offer you!

good luck sweety!!!

Answer 9

If he can't afford a ring, how will he afford a family?

If you want a ring, have him buy you a promise ring. When you've finished college, then he can propose.

I've heard it said, "Age aint' nothin' but a number" but really life is a very long time to be married to someone when you haven't had a chance to find out who you really are and what you really want out of life.

Moreover, I'm not even sure that you can legally marry in your state. Some states allow 16, most require 18.

Answer 10

Don't go around saying your engaged. It means a lot more then what your making it out to be. When things don't work between the 2 of you, and they prob. won't no other guy is going to want you. They will think you are crazy for being engaged at 15.

Ask him to buy you a promise ring. A ring in hope of an engagement.

Answer 11

15 is way too young. anything can happen in the relationship. Dont get me wrong but .. for now you think you are madly inlove. I was in your age too and i thought my ex and i were so inlove to each other. at 17 he gave me a ring told me that we'll spend our life together forever. we talked about getting married when I turn 20-21. we agreed to wait. but as years goes by, everything changed. I am not saying that this will happen to you too but dont expect so much from the relationship. you dont know what's gonna happen. Its just a ring - yes you are right but 15 years old is too young to think about marriage. I am 26 now and when I look back - it's so childish. you will understand someday when you turn to 20ish.