A guy that I wouldn't have a sexual relationship with (because he has a girlfriend) told me that I was dreamin if I thought I would ever get a man that would not cheat. He said every man is going to cheat after a while, no matter what they say. Is this true gentlemen, and if so, what is the incentive for us to be faithful to you?? Should we go get our cake and eat it too??
2007-02-20 03:08:33 · 16 answers · asked by Shyla B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhh no. thats so wrong!
2007-02-20 03:11:46 · answer #1 · answered by gocoutureyourself x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is not true. Not every man cheats. In fact, real men do not cheat!!!
A relationship is based upon trust and without trust it will fail.
Men cheat for two reasons. Either they are not honest or they are not happy in the relationship. The dishonest should be forgotten. The unhappy men did not really know what they were getting into when they committed to a relationship. Make sure the man that you want to marry knows what he is doing and is comfortable.
I was so comfortable at my wedding that I was joking around with our guests. My wife and I have been married for four years now and I would not even think of cheating on her.
Take care,
Troy
2007-02-20 11:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, a woman should not expect her man to cheat on her. Don't believe everything you are told. For some, cheating is a sign of insecurity. I think this fits the guy you spoke to. Be thankful you are not interested in him. We all are not that bad.
2007-02-20 11:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are short-changing themselves if they expect to be cheated in relationships. My dad never cheated, proves that guy you mentioned is wrong. Why should women expect or settle for less? I say good for you that you wouldn't have a sexual relationship with him - he is a lying, cheating ^%$# and not worth your time. Good riddance I say.
2007-02-20 11:14:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat. A woman should never expect to be cheated on in a relationship.
2007-02-20 11:15:13 · answer #5 · answered by CL R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the man truly loved you then he would never cheat he may be tempted and look a couple of times but never go all the way.
2007-02-20 11:15:50 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy Bear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt want to be cheated on, therefore, if i should act onto others what i'd like done (or not done) to me. That guy was just a dumbass who wanted sex, couldnt get it, and wanted to make you feel bad for it. Let it be.
There are guys like me (or others above me) that really mean it when we say we won't cheat.
2007-02-20 11:17:34 · answer #7 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a loser. I think we all worry that we are going to be cheated on, but I don't think we should expect to be cheated on. There are genuine guys out there who respect you and your trust and wouldnt cheat on you...ur ex just isnt one of them.
2007-02-20 11:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u have 2 be expecting it, but that doesnt mean that it is going to happen.
i have been cheated on before and i know how much it hurts.
i would never put someone else it that situation, especially someone that i loved
2007-02-20 11:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Jake C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whomever told you that is a jackass. I have been cheated on and know how much it hurts and would never put another person through the pain I went through.
2007-02-20 11:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only incentive for you to be faithful is love
the only thing i want to get from my lover is love
if my lover want to eat her cake i could not care less
2007-02-20 11:25:32 · answer #11 · answered by kimht 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋