me and my gf split up kind of we are on a break she has gone away for a week and we both agreed to talk when she got back.
but im not sure the possablilltys dont lok good no matter wot happens because i was joining the army and she begged me not to go and stay for her (i was top of my class ), so i did but i dont think it was worth it now we had a great time and we both started to fall for each other, but how can she love me if she asked me to give up the life my body was made for just for her i would of done it anyway but she should not have asked im not sure if i shud take her back but i do like her alot ........confused big time
btw the army will not change me or break me im too stong in will and heart for that to happen not even my ex sgt said it would.
and it feel she hasnt given up anything but i gave up my life the army is the only place other than her where i have been accepted as i am
2007-02-20 03:08:01 · 9 answers · asked by kezz247 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey, if she loves you in any way, she will wait for you and let you go and do your thing. Being a squaddie does not mean you will not have time with her, she will just have to be patient and wait. She sounds confused and unsure of what she wants but why should that be your life stopping issue?? You have made a massive sacrifice for this girl and she cannot even say thank you!? Please, if she loved you, she would wait for you and fit into your life when you come back. Try and get into the Army again, don't let her selfish attitude do that to you, or you will end up resenting her forever and a day. She is not worth it if she asks you to stay again. Follow your heart because at the end of the day, she may not be in you life in a few years time.
2007-02-20 04:31:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important to follow your dreams - so you need to seriously consider what YOU want to do. It is possible that your relationship will not you going into the army. So ask her what her reservations are and then make your decision.
I am not sure that your body was "made for" the army. I only hope that you stay safe and well. Let me know how things go for you. Good luck
2007-02-20 11:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would anyone want to fight for this midden? risking your life on that parasite Blairs whim and stupidity while he gives the very people whose trying to kill you in a baking desert a safe haven... I'd put a blow up Sindy first never mind a real chic'.. wise up this countries finished as a 'Great' anything now..
2007-02-20 11:29:16 · answer #3 · answered by richiesown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take her back, she wanted a break, give her one and try to figure out what you want to do, u never let go of you dream and you shouldn't. Do what you want to do right now, she should accept that this is what you want to do and support you or else she's not worth it.
2007-02-20 11:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've asked this 3 times now...
Were the other answers not what you wanted to hear?
From looking at all your questions this issue has been going for nearly 2 weeks, follow your heart, only it has the answers, not strangers on here.
2007-02-20 11:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by dee-lightful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,if you can join the army then do it.If your girlfriend loved you she would support you in what you want to do.
2007-02-20 11:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) rejoin the army
2) travel and see her as often as possible
3) if it does not work out find someone who loves you army and all - she is out there.
2007-02-20 11:17:52 · answer #7 · answered by D B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BACK TO THE ARMY
2007-02-20 11:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was all that about?
2007-02-20 11:15:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋