this in connection with my other question as to how i can make my boyfriend be more expressive with his emotions with me...i kinda wanted to try one suggestion i read...that i should kinda cool off our physical intimacy until he learns to express it through his emotions...now how am i gonna do that? if i don't kiss him, wouldn't he wonder if something's wrong? grr....this is frustrating! help! pls..i need as many answers as possible...thanks!
2007-02-20 02:55:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A woman must have told you to do that. Guys don't share their emotions that frequently (if at all), and if they do, its only going to be when you are alone together (no one else around, especially his friends) and he is feeling vulnerable or in a lovey mood. Does he say "I love you"? Does he smile when he sees you? Does he hold your hand or rub your shoulders or touch your wrist? Get you little, cute presents? That is about as much emotion as you're going to get out of a guy (unless he is a drama queen). If he does none of that, dump him, because there is nothing there.
2007-02-20 03:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't stop kissing him, he will think you have found another man. The best way to help a man with this is through your own emotions. When you need a hug, tell him that you just would love it if he would hug you sometimes for no reason at all because it makes you feel good. If you want to kiss him, do it, he will learn that you need to feel loved and tell him this. Men are physical women are emotional. Ask him if he will kiss you when you least expect it or hug, or hold his hand when you are out. Tell him that you need to know he is there and it helps you feel closer to him. The more expressive you are with touching hugging kissing holding hands the more he will get used to doing this. Like I say many times to people, communication is the key to any relationship, Just talk to him about what makes you feel good and would he do this for you. He will be glad you asked and it will help him feel more loved and so will you. Take care Heather
2007-02-20 03:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are funny when it comes to expressing themselves. Some have no problem doing it and others have such a difficult time expressing themselves. But onw way you can help you bf is by showing him....Show him how to express himself other then the physical act. Actually, you guys can learn together, makes it alot more fun too!!! And why are you not kissing him? That I dont understand. Does that have something to do with not being physical? If so, why. When you say physical, I am thinking that actually act, not the fore play........which I consider kisses, rubbing, etc....... Good Luck!
2007-02-20 03:05:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, thanks for that. You might have problem selling him as there's a glut of these on the market at the moment. You could try adding slightly grubby picture of some b*mbo as an incentive. Good luck
2016-05-23 22:37:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men who don't open up generally don't open up. Take this advice from a wise old woman. They especially don't open up when you try to get them to open up.
If you love him, take a good long look at him, because this is who he is. See him for WHO HE IS, and if you can accept him, bingo. If not, accept it yourself or find someone else.
2007-02-20 03:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl dump him get a new guy his a number 14233030954 my brothers
2007-02-20 03:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋