my mom will let me date this guy thats 20 and everyone thinks that i souldn't but iam in love and may get married to this guy what sounld i do date him or find someone my age ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
2007-02-20 02:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-02-20 03:20:23 · update #1
Your statement "I am in love and may get married" tells me you need to mature quite a lot. Enjoy your teenage years, and date other guys before you make a statement like this. You don't even know how many different guys and personalities there are, it's impossible, your too young.
2007-02-20 03:03:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mike M. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think 15 is too young to date anyone seriously. I think you need to spend your teen years having fun with your friends. You may regret not having this freedom later. I also think that this guy is too old for you.
The legal ramifications of what could happen are very high. What happens if one of your parents gets mad at you or him and accuses him of statutory rape or kidnapping? No offense, but I often question the motives of men who want to date teenagers. Ever seen "To Catch a Predator?" Not saying he's a bad person, but what if?
If he truly loves you and wants to marry you, he won't push you now. He'll be willing to wait until you are at least 18 - or older - and have had some life experiences. If it was meant to be, it will happen later down the road. Don't force it now.
What happens if you do marry him this young, miss out on all the fun of being a teen and then resent him for it?
My advice? WAIT.
2007-02-20 11:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by turnerzgirl101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!NO!NO! honey a lot of teens ur age feel like they are going to marry their first love...dont rush things....ur young and still have a lot to explore...maybe ur going to get bored of this guy...i know how you feel...u probably feel frustrated when people tell u that ur not gonna last...most chances that ur not...he is at a different level from you..he knows more..and guys that age with a 15 year old girl know what to say to them...and if that 20 year old was really mature..he wouldnt even have thought about getting with you..he would know that you are still young..you still have a lot of school..and a teenager doesnt really know what they want..no offense...i am saying this mostly because of myself..i thought i was going to be with my ex forever..now i think i was just so dumb...
so yeah find a guy ur age...or have guys on the side...ur too young to get into a serious relationship..and most guys out there are horndogs
2007-02-20 11:08:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date someone your own age. The age diff is a problem, not even mentioning the marriage! Maybe it'd be better to go out with him a little longer before getting married? So you can be sure. Good luck!
2007-02-20 11:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely dont date this guy. What is wrong with your mother. You are both immature at those ages. But he is streets ahead of you. What are you doing talking about marraige for at 15, Get some goals in your life for things you want to do, for yourself. Not to please anyone else. Then in you early twenties, if the desire is still there to marry this guy, and you are sure this is the right thing to meet your priorities in life, Certainly do it!
2007-02-20 11:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by wally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't started dating yet and your already talking about marriage. Take your time, you have your whole life ahead of you. Question your mom as to why she is letting this man hang around. Your her daughter, your well fare should be the first thing on her mind
2007-02-20 11:37:42 · answer #6 · answered by Dan ( 2 ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your too young to be married but it's your life and you have to do what makes yyou happy. if you love him follow your heart but be careful either way. i mean also if you really love this guy then why ask if you should date him or someone else? just food for thought. think before you act sweetie and decide what it is you really want. good luck.
2007-02-20 11:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can date but im sure its illegal to married at 15! i think dont be stupid and rush into it, it may seem like you want to get marie to im but wait a few years and enjoy your life with him before rushing into getting married. i dont think you should be thinking marriage at 15
2007-02-20 10:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go wit ur heart, my friend is goin out wit a guy dat is 22 and her relationship wit him seems to be goin well. but in my oppion he seems 2 old. but don't go by choice follow ur heart.
2007-02-20 12:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Netti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is way to old for you... u shouldnt even be dating... spend time studying for school and going out with your girlfriends...what is your mother thinking?
and whats sad is that clearly there are bigger issues here.
2007-02-20 11:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by michaellandonsmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋