i am sick of seeing all my mail opened wide when i get in from work. my girlfriend has no reason to distrust me, i am a good man. what can i do?
2007-02-20 02:53:13 · 22 answers · asked by kenny r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thought you were talking about something eles lol but thats wrong i live with my bf and i dont even open is mail. only if he has said open it for him when he rings at lunch so i can tell him what it is. but you should tell her to stop or just open hers if you get a chance lol
2007-02-20 02:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by shell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her not to open your mail, explain that you feel untrusted and that hurts and that the more she distrusts you the more reasons you have got for making those distrusts come true. Be Honest with each other and hopefully all will sort itself out. Good Luck
2007-02-20 11:01:02 · answer #2 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in no uncertain terms that she is not to open your mail. If she distrusts you that much, then she needs to leave. She has no respect for you either, because if she did, she wouldn't be opening your mail. Stand firm on this one!
2007-02-20 10:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone should have their own personal space. Tell her not to do that again, easy as that.....and you need to convinced her that you have nothing to hide. Maybe sometimes, open some mails in front of her and tell her what is the contents, instead of her opening up before you can get to it.
2007-02-20 11:06:15 · answer #4 · answered by chardonnayormerlot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that it is against the law to open someone else's mail and remind her that she doesn't have a ring on her finger and she doesn't have you last name and that allows you to file charges against her if you have to. I promise you she'll stop opening up your mail after hearing that.
2007-02-20 10:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by makalahlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're always wide open for you because the postman has just been there :--P
Get home earlier before the postman and this shouldnt happen...
2007-02-20 10:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by dubgirl26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her about it and always asure her of ur love for her.So as not to have any reason to distrust u.
2007-02-20 11:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Impossible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is violation of a few rules:
1. Privacy is your right
2. She is insecure and shifty, your business is exactly that, yours.
3. Separation of church and state, separation of boyfriend and his personel business. Get it?
Get rid of her!!!!! Trouble is a brewin for your future, you have attracted a desperate woman. She is insecure and will bring you worse trouble as you get deeper into it with her.
You gotta grow mean and manly and stop that crap!
2007-02-20 11:00:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i didn't expect to read it was the post you was talking about lol (i have a vivid imagination)
tell her you would rather open your mail as it is addressed to you and you would not open hers.
she may have no idea how much this annoys you.
2007-02-20 10:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by zeldieuk2002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off tell her you don't like her doing this
Open her mail - see how she likes it.
2007-02-20 10:59:26 · answer #10 · answered by barneysmommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋