Me and my ex broke up a month ago, after I found out he gave his number to this girl.
This girl - was a girl he dated last year when we broke up. He and I have dated 6 years.
He wants to try again and work things out. I do love him, but it really hurts my feelings that he did this.
He knew how I felt about her and still went to places she was and seen her one night at a club and gave her his number.
I know I'd be an idiot to go back, but I do love him very much.
What should I do?
2007-02-20 02:48:54 · 13 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he would just be good to me - Id be happy to get married and settle down. I don't know if I can ever trust him enough to marry him though.
2007-02-20 02:50:34 · update #1
No way, forget about him and move on. It's obvious he doesn't care about you as much as you care about him.
2007-02-20 02:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your head in this case and not your heart. Example - head says "I know I'd be an idiot to go back". Heart says "but I do love him very much."
The very fact that you don't trust him is reason enough not to go back. It sounds like you two are in a cycle. Get together, break up, get together, break up. This is not healthy for you. This is no good at all for you.
2007-02-20 10:55:53 · answer #2 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him at least another chance because that would be like 6 yrs. gone down the drain. If you really love him you would give him another chance but you should tell him how you feel and let him know if he really wants things to work out he has to change. And this other girl needs to get out of the picture for good.
2007-02-20 10:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be a sucka 4 love he's playin u no female should be disrespected like that he knew how u felt from tha jump if he wants to play games let him do it on his on time u dont have time for childplay like i say i joke an i laugh but i dont play quit school cause or recess cause i dont play ther shouldn't be no need to try again u snooze u lose an thats what he done thats what u should do be done wit it u may love him but apparently he dosen't love u like they say theres always someone out there better than what u have. let him go it's not worth tha pain an suffering keep your head up babygurl.
2007-02-20 11:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by tutragic07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as you love him, you can't take him back so easily. Since he hurt you, he must prove he won't do that to you again. If you still so love him and would like to take back. Make sure he works for it, he earns your trust back. Otherwise, you will have to leave him. You love will only be wasted on a guy like him, who doesn't seem to deserve it. Hope that somewhat helps..xD
2007-02-20 10:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by *Arunae* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not enough info. Is this ALL he did? Or does he generally treat you like crap otherwise?
If this is ALL he did, I'd give it some more thought. Like, torture him for a month or so then slowly go back.
If he's generally a jerk - consider yourself lucky to be rid of him.
Like my mom used to say - men are like a bus, there's another one in about 15 minutes.
2007-02-20 10:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it when you get marry things will not get easier it will get worse take it for somebody who knows. try to work things out first if it dosent get better you need to break up defenitely but dont get marry if things are not work out belive it only gets worse
2007-02-20 10:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by user 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that you have your answer already. That is no, you already stated it in your question. Move on sweetheart.
2007-02-20 10:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on......You probably deserve to do a whole lot better than him.
2007-02-20 10:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by makalahlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take him back he will only do it again. find someone better
2007-02-20 10:57:11 · answer #10 · answered by mark j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋