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My gf & I broke up last week after 2 ½ years. She told me she was unhappy w/our relationship.She said that we come from 2 diff.paths; she doesn’t know if she can be with my family, & she has to push me to do everything.She looks at everything I have done in the past as a negative.I just went back to school after 6 years, & to her that’s a neg.She came from a home where she very rarely had to pay for anything, dated ppl who had $ & class.Her mom would make comments about ex’s while I was at the house, about them having class & how wonderful they were. 2 weeks ago she hung out with a friend from HS and didn’t ask me to hang out with her & meet him. I recently found out she was kissing him that night. This all happened while we were still dating. She never told me & used the excuses above. Should I tell her I found out or should I just leave it alone? I found out her friends told her this guy is only there for a$$. What should I do tell her how I feel or forget about it?

2007-02-20 02:47:13 · 6 answers · asked by mark j 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Unfortunately, it sounds as if you and your girlfriend have too many major obstacles to overcome. The BIGGEST problem comes from her family, not wanting you to be in their daughters life. Her parents seem to have a huge amount of influence on her relationships. If she(your ex) broke off with you for other reasons that SHE feels are negative, you have to realize that your relationship was much more important to you. I think you really have been fighting an up-hill battle with this relationship. If she chose to be with another guy, and was affectionate with him, do yourself a favor and try to let it go. I think you will be hurt, and just be wasting your time and energy trying to save this relationship. Do not even bother to confront her, she is not worth the effort, and you will be the one who will suffer.Continue your education, for YOURSELF, I know it is a cliche....But you will in time get past this! Best Wishes.

2007-02-20 03:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Wow. What a tough situation and I am sorry that you have had to deal with such an insensitive person. I would not say anything and forget about her. I know it is probably hard to just "forget" her after 2 and 1/2 years, but it sounds like you can do better. You can find someone that supports you when you do something great like going back to school and someone who will love you no matter how much money you have. Also, personally...it sounds like she is just making up excuses to not be with you. If you do end up saying something to her, it might cause you more pain than what you are feeling now. Good luck.

2007-02-20 02:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by vik25love 2 · 0 1

Now if the two of you have broken up, just leave her alone, and tell your friends, that you do not want to hear any thing about her, that you only wish her well. Now you are on the right path, going back to school, keep focused, and aim high, set goals, for yourself, and you, if you put all of your efforts into it, you can make it. Make something out of your life!

2007-02-20 02:54:18 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 1

she doesn't sound very nice or good for you. if she can't love you for who you are then there is no purpose to love her back. even if this guy does not have right intentions for her and she still gave in she might give in to someone else later down the road.

2007-02-20 02:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by styler 2 · 0 1

Wow thats pretty harsh. You should tell her you know everything and never talk again. She doesnt appreciate you at all and thinks she can do whatever she wants.

2007-02-20 02:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by mr. t 5 · 0 1

She a ho, man. You got the class she the white trash.

2007-02-20 02:54:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0 1

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