What could he do to be more attractive? Buy a nice car? Donate money to poor people? I have a lot of $ and want to use it to become more attractive to women... not physically but personality wise. I have a good personality but i just wanna know what they're attracted to. I'm 18 btw.
2007-02-20 02:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by puathe180man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From life's experience I can tell you that if you want to attract a woman who will love and respect you, then be a good man and treat her right. Invest your money well and wisely, and use what you need of it for a good life, not necessarily "the good life".
2007-02-20 02:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tread carefully if I were you. Waving money to attract women will just attract the wrong kind of women to you - the kind that is interested only in your money and not in you as a person.
Depends on what you really want in your life - any woman or the right kind that will care about you genuinely and stay with you even if you were poor. Do not doubt that a lot of women are attracted to money - the question is what kind of women you want to attract.
To become more attractive to women, develop your personality. Money is not part of your personality, it is part of what you own - your possessions. Your personality stays with you for good, but $ comes and goes.
I would say you use your money to expand & grow yourself first being only 18. You could of course buy a nice car for yourself. Donate some to charity but make sure you are doing it cos you feel it is a good cause and not just that you want to attract women. Visit other regions/countries to see what being poor is like. It will really open up your eyes to the world. Expand your knowledge by doing so and keep up with current affairs. You will have your own views of the world and your own opinions on what can be done to help, thereby developing your personality and having a cause you believe in. Doing good for the virtue of it is attractive. You must genuinely feel that you are doing it for the good of others who need it. That is the basis of a solid personality.
A man who genuinely wants to help and believe in helping for the sake of helping and has the means to do so is someone who will earn the respect of many around him. Be sincere in your intent, always keep your word, be responsible & respect those around you. Do not flaunt your wealth wrecklessly. Remember, there is much virtue in humility. Expand your knowledge, grow yourself in spirit and beliefs.
You sound like you know where you are heading - just by the mention of personality you wish to develop. Be yourself, be a good person and be good to others. Those are already attractive qualities.
2007-02-20 11:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people don't care about money...Those who do are gold-diggers for lack of a better word. If a guy needs to feel more attractive, he doesn't need to buy a new car. I knew this guy who was hot, and very sweet. Then, he got a new car and lots of money, and he left me. What I'm saying is, girls like guys even if they are not physically beautiful. It just like a guy liking an ugly girl because she is sweet. Don't flaunt your money, or you will find a girl who only wants you for your money. BTW: I'm 18 too so...
2007-02-20 10:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said "not physically." Wrong. Focus on that. If your personality is good, and you're a generally good man, spruce up your wardrobe, get a current haircut, some sharp glasses if you wear them, a decent watch, a watch and shoes make a big difference.
Don't know what to buy? Ask a sales girl at the store.
I don't mean to sound shallow but if your personality is good, why not look good to go with it? Showing you care about your looks is a good place to start with girls your age.
2007-02-20 10:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for being a teen myself i think i could possibly help. there are some girls that dont care what so ever about money. for instance me: i dont care if they are poor or filthy rich. I dont care what they look like at the first appearance. what matters most is: the sense of humor, personality, family values, moral, education and most of all how well they present themself.
money shouldnt have to buy you a girl. if they are truely into you, they will like/love you for what you are and what you have now.
2007-02-20 10:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by picc0999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just flash the money.. Chicks are attracted to money. They say they want a nice, supportive, loving man who hopefully looks good too, but its amazing how flashing some green around will have them crawling all over you no matter what your like.
2007-02-20 10:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
u shouldn't flash it around, unless u want a bunch of girls who love ur money and not you, try to meet ppl who don't know you have all the extra cash and when you meet someone whose really special, you can spend it on her. Don't go out of the way to make it known to everyone that you have alot of money, be subtle and find someone who loves you and not the money.
2007-02-20 10:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your money for whatever YOU like doing. Chicks don't want money, they want the best man. And the best man usually has more money. I suggest you use your money to enhance your abilities and all the chicks will dig you.
2007-02-20 10:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by sal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I should have such problems!
Just splash the cash my friend. Good restaurants, good clothes, quality cologne - 1st class all the way and watch them gold diggers come running!
2007-02-20 10:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by deucelow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, gotta go with Chipper on this one. Most women are whores, the honest ones will at least ask you for the money upfront.
2007-02-20 10:50:36 · answer #10 · answered by alpha_troll07 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋