be intimate with each other that we would have to be married.This man wants me and I want him but we both have road blocks in front of us.He told me I was his weakness and his hardest test and that he didnt want me with anyone else.I feel that same way about him but I told him I am not going to wait on him forever.its been almost 5 years now and we have a 2 year old son together and I want a husband..I told him if he felt that he couldnt be that then it was time for us to really part and just raise our son...what do you think he will do????
2007-02-20 02:40:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
prob run
2007-02-20 02:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by b4i_fku-r-u-18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to leave. I take it that he is young and does not want to be tied down with a wife. His friends are probably unmarried. His love or care for you might be genuine but it is not enough, he probably is only hanging around these days out of guilt more than anything. Cut the cord.
2007-02-20 10:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r pressuring him to married u
come on u women read all these gossips about in relationship in all these magazines
u should know as a woman never to pressure a man into something
then either he will pull away or when he does commit
regret the decision either or u wouldnt want that
good luck
and have open communication with him
2007-02-20 10:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the same way. You love him, and seems he also loves you, but scared of being married, but I say man enough to have a kid, he has to be man enough to take responsibility. If you don't see no results then just leave him, there's responsible men out there that will appreciate you.
2007-02-20 10:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing and the only thing for a secure future. You should have done it before the child was conceived. If he lets you go, you will know that he has no character and never really loved you at all. I hope it works out for you.
2007-02-20 10:45:18 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen the right thing for him to do is marry you, but you gave him and ultimatium. thats not good because even if he agrees to marry you, he will in some way resent you for forcing this decision on him. It should be up to him to want to marry you . But since you took that away form him now, I would say be ready to receive his answer if he walks away form you
2007-02-20 10:56:58 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right dont back down. if u already have a son he really should marry u. if he loves his son and u as much as he says then he'll marry u till death do u part. stand ur ground i think he will make the rigth choice
2007-02-20 10:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by smartchicred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would have married my lady before we had children together ---- and you are correct he needs a wake up call ---- he is your husband in all but name so its time to add the name --- i dont know him and can not predict what he will do --- he has stayed when you had your baby so he will more than likely stay with you still -- he is scared ---- best wishes to you both
2007-02-20 10:52:36 · answer #8 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage ultimatums don't work. Prepare to be dumped, alone and unloved.
2007-02-20 10:46:28 · answer #9 · answered by alpha_troll07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him Mr. Hardware because he is about to screw,nut,bolt
2007-02-20 10:43:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know because I don't know him or you. but all I can do is wish you luck.
2007-02-20 10:45:35 · answer #11 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋