I finally asked him (through a text) if he has a chick because I thought it was weird how he never calls and only texts me. He said that no he doesn't have a girl but that's just how he talks to his friends simply because he feels he can talk better that way. Every month he uses about 9000 texts(isn't that ridiculous?) He also said he gets nervous on the phone like he has with me on the few times we have spoken on the phone. I mean we have hung out a few times and it's never awkward we get along super awesome and on the phone too we just talk and talk, but i do notice that on the phone and in person he does seem jittery at first, but once he gets comfortable around me he is fine. He's the one who wanted to know me (he did it through his friend at that, and even she told me he was shy). I don't get how a dude can be so shy to only text me every night, hardly ever asks me to hang out, and never calls. What's up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend, can he really be that shy?
2007-02-20 02:39:13 · 14 answers · asked by no_trabajar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps he is shy and finds it easier to talk to someone via text because that person can't see or hear him. You need to approach him a lady like manner so that he'll get use to talking to you and being around you. By your own admission, you've stated that he talks to his friends this way. He's seeing you as a friend not a date or a potential date. In him mind you're like one of the guys and you need to change that thought if you want to date him. First off start referring to him as a dude, that's sounds to manly. It's time to take off your overalls and put on your fitted skirt and shake what your momma gave you. Stop being one of the fellas and be the person that catches his eye. Let him see you differently.
2007-02-20 03:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:25:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he can really be shy, BUT I think it's ridiculous to constantly text. Maybe he has a serious problem and should see someone about it. I'm not saying he's a bad person, but if he gets help, he'd be able to express himself better to people and would possibly be more comfortable.
2007-02-20 02:43:07 · answer #3 · answered by YinxSphinxmen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey everyone is different. love comes with obstacles. its how u overcome them that makes the journey of ur love life. so he doesnt like talking on the phone, but he's good at texting. maybe he's a computer nerd. or maybe he's just shy when talking to someone when he cant see there face. try talking to him with something between u two so u cant see eachother but u can still hear. if he gets shy, thats wats up. if he's ok with it, then somethings up. last words of advice, follow ur heart.
2007-02-20 02:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by D.Money 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he must really be that shy. But it's obvious he likes you. Maybe it's time for you to be the one to take control of the situation and let him know that you want to hang out sometime instead of waiting on him to ask you.
2007-02-20 02:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its quiet awkward for a guy to be that shy. But i say u do the asking out and stuff maybe the more u do it, the more comfortable he will get around u. Good LUCK THOUGH. My boyfriend was pretty shy at first but he wamed up to me.
2007-02-20 02:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow....hope he has the unlimited text feature on his cell phone bill. Maybe he has a hard time communicating in person. It does seem a little weird that he can't function in person....but maybe if you let him know that it freaks you out, he'll try to do better.
2007-02-20 02:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Houston, we have a crazy texting problem on our hands. You need to tell him to call you instead to texting you all the time.
2007-02-20 02:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
some people are very shy and cant get out of there shyness... you'll just have to put up with it.
2007-02-20 02:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
call him
maybe he IS that shy
2007-02-20 02:43:28 · answer #10 · answered by agropelter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋