What safeguards do you think ne should take before meeting someone that they found onthe computer ??
2007-02-20 02:22:25 · 14 answers · asked by burlingtony 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I have. My guy and I met on a dating site. It's funny because, the very moment I was checking out his profile, he sent me an email.
I was very attracted to him, not only physically but, with what his profile read. I was too nervous and shy to make the first move and so, I am very glad that he did.
It's worked out for us and now we live together and I couldn't be happier. I truly believe I have found my soul-mate.
The safeguards that I would suggest are:
1) Take the time to get to know each other well online first. We emailed back and forth for many months before actually meeting.
2) Even though we didn't, I would strongly suggest when you do meet for the first time, pick a public place. Like a coffee shop perhaps.
3) Always listen to your intuition. If it's telling you good things about this person, then swap phone numbers. Only you can know for sure what is right.
I have a very strong intuitive side and that's what I always rely on. These are just a few things for people out there considering meeting online. It's a very common way nowadays. Just be extremely careful.
2007-02-20 02:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) Chat with them for sometime.
2) Be sure you have gone through the stage of asking questions about them online first before meeting so that you have some idea what kind of person they are.
3) Before you decide to meet, be sure you feel comfortable meeting this person. You'll know best if you want to meet him or not.
3) Meet someplace public and well lighted. A quick lunch for example and size them up. Remember to ask them some questions you had asked online to check if they give the same answers or were lying about it. Online folks could be lying and presenting a false impression of themselves to others.
4) Make sure you tell a friend who you're meeting and where. Give your friend the online name of the person you're meeting.
When you do meet, take the usual precautions when going on a date.
2007-02-20 10:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bugsy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes... I have met 4 women that I had chatted with online before meeting them. 3 psychos and one nice but not very ambitious in life type of girl.
Safeguards... Meet in a very public place, Don't pick them up and don't let them pick you up. Don't let them know where you live until you have met them in person a few times and are comfortable with them. When you do meet with them, have a friend call your cell phone at a designated time so that you can have an "Out" if its not going well.
2007-02-20 10:29:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met the person I am dating online last year. We met in the middle of the day for lunch in a very public place. You can't be too careful, but it is okay to meet someone if you really feel good about it. Just don't forget to listen to your inner self if it tells you that the situation isn't what it should be!
2007-02-20 11:00:38 · answer #4 · answered by nickyk 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should always meet someone at a neutral place with alot of people. Tell a friend to meet you at the same place, so they can see the person you are meeting. Never give out your home address or phone number.
2007-02-20 10:29:05 · answer #5 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with it. It is becoming quite common. The internet is just another medium to meet people on.
Just meet the person in a public place, preferably a Starbucks or similar establishment. Have a long chat with the person and feel him or her out.
2007-02-20 10:26:57 · answer #6 · answered by The B Man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my wife through the Internet. We were introduced through eHarmony and corresponded through their site first. Then, we corresponded by telephone before we met in person in a public place. She did not know my identity until I wanted to let her know. I am a father of 4 children and did not want to put my relationship with them or interfere with a relationship with a stranger. We met in a public place to put her at ease. Also to show her that I was no nut case wanting to stalk her. Our relationship grew and now, we are married. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 11:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I met my boyfriend online, we live in the same town, and are the same age. We've been dating for two years. I wouldn't suggest meeting anyone until you've gotten to know them very well. Actually, I dunno....because they could be lying to you....
2007-02-20 10:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I have a friend who is talking to someone on myspace. I know it sounds weird but she said the he is really nice & they are getting along very well. Anyway she recently celebrated her birthday & they scheduled to met, but I don't know how the outcome of that situation ended.
2007-02-20 10:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by andrea c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would NEVER meet with someone I met online. There are way too many pervs in this world!!!
2007-02-20 10:26:12 · answer #10 · answered by southernbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋