Ive been going out with this nice guy for a month and we have so much in common but Im just not physically attracted to him, the problem is we work together but he is only working at the company for another month. Should I dump him after he leaves the company or be honest with him straight away?
2007-02-20 02:19:52 · 22 answers · asked by carmen260 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I will opt for your second choice.Be honest,tell him that you like him as a friend but you just can't being yourself to be in a more serious relationship with him.Adding on to it,you said you are not attracted physically to him?Arghh..then why waste time?dont go with the flow,force yourself to fancy him and end up in a more committed relationship that you know you are not fond of.It will break apart..sooner or later...Good luck in your future endeavours,
2007-02-20 02:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by Angel_Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it because he will be leaving in next month? thas all?
i mean if you are attracted to someone and if you like him, no matter what you will fancy him. i think you are either a) you like him but you worry about what will happen after he leave the office b)he is a nice guy but he is no who you want to be with.
if a), you should be straight and talk about it.
b), be honest and dump him anyway he will be leaving soon.
from my experience, it is really shame but even the guy is perfect, you just cannot like him. i know i SHOULD. butjust cannot. but it is your heart telling you the right answer. so if you are b), dont worry you will find the right person soon!
2007-02-20 02:30:17 · answer #2 · answered by honeycoco23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not which you will convince her which you have fallen for her, because you already did that. yet, can she confess that she has fallen in love with you..? properly, you purchased her vegetation, candies and a necklace.. She's perplexing to get..! And whilst she says "i dont rather like her!".. tell her, how might you comprehend? Did you sense my coronary heart? (Lol, corny i comprehend..!) do exactly no longer be too obsessive and don't instruct her that your desperate, act widely used. And, what do you recommend she says in front of others "He fancys me, dont u?".. Hmm, she's attempting to get interest.. What you ought to do is, purchase something which will remind her of a place she likes or, the place the place you first met or laid your eyes on her. something creative potential, something you invent. no longer nature, no longer a chocolate shop no longer a jewellery shop, yet you. Take her to the place he/she cherishes the main, in case you do no longer comprehend.. Take her to a intense high quality, romantic place and examine her a poem or purely confess and get all your emotions out. Make her fall in love with you! good success :)
2016-12-18 07:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by phylys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest explain to him that as a friend he's great but as a partner he just doesn't do it for you be nice as he may have the same opinion. Good Luck
2007-02-20 02:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get together in the forst place if there was no spark? You have been stringing him along. Let him down now so you can try and explain without looking like you just wanted an office romance.
2007-02-20 02:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him straight away. You said yourself that you don't fancy him, so why put it off another month?
2007-02-20 02:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u don't fancy him, what are u still doing with him? be honest with him, he will respect u for it. he can let go of u and move on to find someone else.
2007-02-20 03:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest to him and to yourself please,i had the same problem 2 weeks ago and i did it,i am now free,tell him the truth and be a good girl.
2007-02-20 03:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by peedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest straight away.
2007-02-20 02:34:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with the lad, neither of you deserve this, you dont deserve to be stuck with a guy you dont fancy and he dont deserve to be with a girl who doesnt fancy him!
2007-02-20 02:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Izzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋