We've been together like 7 months already. We deeply fell in love with each other. Is it too early to be making love? I am 21 and she is 22. She thinks she is ready. I am ready too but just wondering, is it too early to be making love?
2007-02-20 02:12:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if ur in love already then no. go ahead and do it but talk it out and make sure ur both ready because this is a big step.
2007-02-20 02:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have a general intention to get married then, if you are that worried you might as well wait until you are married.
If not, then if you both think you are ready you probably are. However, you can have an intermediate period when you agree that sex is now allowed, but don't actually do it. After a while, if you both regret not doing it, then you are as ready as anyone.
If you do go ahead with it, make sure you have plenty of time, like all day preferably. Also remember that it's a bit like walking - sort of programmed in to all humans, but can take a period of learning before it all happens smoothly.
Remember that there is a finite possibility that sex could result in pregnancy. All birth control methods have a failure rate. When you mate with someone, you are accepting that possibility and need to have thought about how you would deal with it.
2007-02-20 10:30:47 · answer #2 · answered by lawomicron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not. And Im saying this because you must not have atured mentally enough yet. No diss. BUt if your 21 n 22 you are suppose to be able to make mature decisions you should be in college somewhere or holding down a job. This is something you need to be deciding with her not asking people on yahoo. because we dont know you guys and your personalitys only you do. If your not in college or holding down a job I dont think you should because financially you are not able to handle any mistakes that may occur. But who am I to judge. I say if you guys do decide plz use protection and correctly they have sites to show you how to put on a condom, because if you got one on doesnt mean that you are protected you have to put it on correctly and even then theres a chance. So baby take your time theres no rush, theres so many stds today and people arent being honest these days about their past. So be safe. k
2007-02-20 10:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by FauxDr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the two of you are mature enough to handle the emotional part of making love, then if you feel you're ready, it's not too early.
2007-02-20 10:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutley not, also it has to do with whether you feel your ready. Its no too realy and 7 months it like over 150 days, thats a lot!
2007-02-20 10:16:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are ready, it is not too early. It is good you havent rushed into anything until you are both clear about your feelings for each other. good luck!
2007-02-20 10:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are ready for it it is not to early.
2007-02-20 10:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by sweetthing2641179 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, it may be too early. why not try some less advnaced things and just see where it leads you?
2007-02-20 10:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you. Personally, I was in a relationship with a guy who was younger than me, and I didn't have sex. I'm 23 and waiting.
2007-02-20 10:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you are ready and she is then i think that y'all should go ahead and do it just my opinion.
2007-02-20 10:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by Teniqua {neenee} Johnson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋