this past week s my bf said i bug him when he out with his mates i no i doing it but i only do it when we argue and fight i get scared he going to do sumfin stupid cuz we argued but when i fink about it a no he wouoldnt so how do i stop buggib him i txt and call him so much he starting to not like talking and txtin me so he just txts saying ryt ok or ye or calls sounds so off with me plz help i just dont no what to do
2007-02-20 02:11:57 · 14 answers · asked by persian gal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless you see him actually cheating on you or getting into trouble with the police, let him go out and have fun and you calm down. If it becomes a problem and he's never around for you to spend any time with try to find a guy who doesn't drink all the time or feel the need to constantly go out partying.
2007-02-20 02:16:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is really innocent and some times so possesive, but do remember that so much possesivness may make it difficult for u n ur boyfrend to continue ur relation. Being possesive is natural in love, but being suffocative is not good.
2007-02-20 10:19:13 · answer #2 · answered by eagle eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guess u are being too over protective,relax,minimize the calls and txtin.i think ur bf see u as a deperate girl,so try and relax about this whole relationship issue.good luck.
2007-02-20 10:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to drive him away. This is the most common female behavior and it is SOOooooooo much of a turn off.
Needy people are a PITA.
2007-02-20 10:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..i'm a guy...think if u were him and had a girl u liked(loved) bugging u always when u wanted to be alone. how'd you feel? put urself in his shoes for a bit and let him relax..(same as you)
2007-02-20 10:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by }IlYk2AnSwEr?'S{ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered your own question. Just stop bugging him. You will run him off, by annoying him. Don't be so insecure.
2007-02-20 10:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just butchered the English language. Good bye.
2007-02-20 10:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From now on let him call or text you first. Let him know that you wont bother him anymore when he's out and that if he needs you he knows your number.
2007-02-20 10:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a hobby
it'll help you think about something else other than bugging you boyfriend
also you should really work on your spelling
2007-02-20 10:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by 100%Lovable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off i would much rather be with my lady than the "guys" and if she wants to talk then i will listen
2007-02-20 10:17:32 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋