Im a fairly well off male who gets tired of the bimbo scene. Just because a female is easy on the eyes they think I want them. How do I meet a goodlooking yet intelligent girl possibly online for a friendship and casual chat without having her try to move in after a couple dates. Please dont give me the email address to one of those bogus dating sites either!!!!! Are there any good girls out there willing to chat??????
2007-02-20 02:03:50 · 17 answers · asked by bigpimpin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol...
yes Im right here..but if u do chat with me..Im afraid you'll start 2 fall in love with me.
2007-02-20 03:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering the same question about men? There are good ladies out there, but guys seem to pass us by. I don't date much because I'm tired of the men trying to move in on my life. The old men love me the young ones want to have sex, they seem to think I need them to take care of me or something. I'm very successful and good looking, I hate all the BS too. Can men and women have a friendship only? It's always seems like someone wants more than the other. I would enjoy chatting without all that commitment stuff.
2007-02-20 02:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it hard for guys to find a decent woman, or at least one they think is decent. Sometimes you can tell at first what a woman is after and other times its very obvious what they want. But truthfully its hard for everyone to to the right person. Try being single for awhile, seriously try it.... You dont have to be alone though, Meet a girl and keep it strictly casual, you may drop hints that your interested of course but dont take it any further, try the "friends first" approach. You may have tried this before but try again. This why you can see your compatibility, and you can know that you have more in common than your sex drive :). Take it gradually and then when you feel things are going great and your ready to ask her to be your woman (with confidence) ... do it. good luck :)
2007-02-20 02:35:02 · answer #3 · answered by jade_41805 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that looking for a relationshiponline is kind of desperate. Why don't you go out to Cafe's or stuff like that. In a party there is a big probability that you wont find your mate. You soul mate is walking around not waiting to find you online and begin a chat. Chatting is somewhat superficial and not real.
2007-02-20 02:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u might want to try getting on myspace or a local chat forum... i mean i met my bf out of a chat room and weve been together for 2 years... if u want to meet a girl that way it is probably the best way to do it... i mean myspace is a great place to meet people from ur area just browse for females and the age u want and then u'll be able to see if u like em or not
2007-02-20 02:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try not flashing your money or disclosing that you're 'well off' in order to attract women. You're the one that has chose to date bimbos. Take responsibility for your own actions. And I'm curious as to why you're only open to on-line friendships. If you ask out women you meet face to face, it seems you'd stand a better chance finding what you truly desire.
2007-02-20 02:10:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are. You have to look though. Try a legit dating site like Match.com or e-harmony.com. They tend to take mostly serious people only. You won't find much in the bars and clubs though. Try volunteer work and community things. That is where the nice women are. (Not to say there aren't nice women at clubs and such, there just aren't many there.) If you are religious, try church activities and singles groups.
2007-02-20 02:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure there are plenty of good looking, intelligent women out there...
When dating, don't come across as a big spender and don't let on how successful you are...maybe that will help you to work out the gold diggers from the real ladies.
Just my opinion. :-)
2007-02-20 02:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should first tell the girl straight what you want out of it, it can either be friendship, female companionship or whatever you like, so as not to let her expect anything from you.. try getting to know the girl through the friendship process, then eventually you may meet many deserving girls out there.. goodluck!!
2007-02-20 02:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by carol 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest down playing your career and social status. Being a single 34 yo F, I can say that I'm really more turned on by what a man has inside of himself than inside of his wallet.
2007-02-20 02:11:52 · answer #10 · answered by sassy2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly in case you are able to no longer marry for love, why no longer marry for money. Watch the movie Heartbreakers. It stars Gene Hackman, Jennifer Love Hewitt, Sigorney Weaver. this is a pair of woman who is going around marrying wealthy adult adult males, then she gets her daughter to gown up and attempt and seduce those adult adult males at which degree she walks in on the final 2d and catches them. She acts all disappointed, divorces them then takes them to the cleaners, and finally ends up particularly wealthy. this is an extremely humorous movie, yet you ought to learn something from it.
2016-12-18 07:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by phylys 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋