u guys feel the need to have 2 or 3 girls at the same time ..... why??? i just need to know cause im tired of dealing with men like that .... THANKS and Kisses
2007-02-20 01:58:49 · 19 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i have to say that i m not like most men
yes, us men go through our stages where we need to explore and look good in front of our peers
but it comes a time to cut all those B crap and settle down
some men mature faster than others
some may take longer than others
i guess its a macho thing
but after the smoke clears and u r hit with reality
u realize that its time to change
i hope one bad apple doesnt ruin it for everyone else
hey if u care to chat
email me peterfl999@yahoo.com
2007-02-20 02:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on whether you mean 2 or 3 girls IN BED at the same time, or just ON THE LINE (i.e. dating) at the same time.
Either way, it doesn't matter. I don't know about most men needing to have multiple girls in either case. I think it may be a latent fantasy for a lot of men, but not a requirement.
I'd say what's important is to start avoiding "players" (men like that) because you clearly are tired of them. Stop going to places where players frequent, like clubs and bars, for the purposes of getting picked up by a guy. Instead, look for dates from other places.
And don't let your past experiences sour you on guys. There are plenty of nice guys out there who are more than happy just having one girl.
2007-02-20 02:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by wa-webguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to look harder or start going out to different places when searching for men.
If you date guys that are not interested in a steady relationship, then of course, you are risking you will be one of many girls in his life (including at the same time). But I don’t think that is the regular or “standard” for us men.
On the other hand, I’m sure that about 90% or more of us feel somehow inside the need to have more than one girl at a time, but this is more sexual than anything else, and is the main reason that you find most guys want to have a threesome FMF style. Is a fantasy that we would like to have at least once (and probably many times after if we like it… LOL).
2007-02-20 02:11:29 · answer #3 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lady, You been barking up the wrong tree the whole time. Most of us only really need and want one women. Some of us don't even have one.
These men you talk about have the minds of 15 year olds who think that the more they have, the better they are. Eventually they'll realise that it's not what they have that makes them a man, it's who they are.
Telling them is not enough because men are stubborn and arrogant by nature. It takes something traumatic and bad to happen to them to make them realise that they're really not as grand as they think.
2007-02-20 02:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to tell you that we're not all like that.
I'd also love to tell you that women aren't the same way... and the world is flat and leprechauns and santa claus exist.
Here's what it comes down to:
Someone who cares for you, loves you... will be all about you. Someone like that doesn't need 2 or 3 or 20 women to make them happy.
Someone who's just with you for your looks, or what you can do for them... they're gonna play... because whatever they can get from you... they can double if they get it from someone else too... and the players mentality is always that more is better.
You need to get away from the men you're dealing with if this is the problem.
2007-02-20 02:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by Offended? Aww Have a Cookie! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I never had that lucky pleasure, but I watched the Heff show on E and I think I understand why he has 3 ladies now. Sometimes one person might have one quality you love while another has another . One person might ahve great looks, another might be smarter and stimulate the mind. Another might have a lot of interest you have.
Im in no way justifying this practice, but some guys and girls want the best of all worlds and sometimes they find it in seperate people.
2007-02-20 02:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of you guys? Not me. I asked a question about why most girls on this website feel so negative about most guys and I got blasted for being a sexist. There are many faithful guys out there. Maybe you're just choosing the losers. Raise your standards. That macho tough guy is just trying feed his ego because he actually feels very inferior.
2007-02-20 02:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them do. Infact I would bet most of the answers will be "I don't" Because most of the men on here answering this question probably treat women good. Otherwise they probably wouldn't be on here answering questions. Unless they are here to be immature. He is out there. You'll find him.
2007-02-20 02:03:06 · answer #8 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dear I would give anything just to have one, two is to much three is just out of the question 1 is all I need.
2007-02-20 02:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have seen " n " of girls having more than 2 guys with them running concurrent relationship.
its not jus men or women its human nature. are humans contended with one house one car. they feel like if i happen to lose the "one" what will happen.. might be u or me(i dont have any girls) will think like that but its human tendency,,
2007-02-20 02:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by heartly r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋