I have alway had an eye for the older guy. I am 30.. Think Noel Edmonds and John Virgo and Alan Rickman are nice guys...
Well I now have a bit of a crush on one of my mums friends.. He is 50 and looks a bit older actually.. Has silver hair and everything.
Think he fancies me too... always flirts with me whenever we are around each other...
Do you think age matters?
2007-02-20 01:55:38 · 31 answers · asked by JustJem 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No ... I'm 48 and I fancy you too! ;-)
You have to consider
1) Does he really fancy you or is he just a lecherous old pervert
2) What would your mother think about any kind of relationship
3) What would his wife say
4) If you're OK with all the above, how big is his bank balance
But remember - in 20 years time, you'll still be a fairly young 50, he'll be 70 and unfortunately time does take its toll....
2007-02-20 02:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unlikely,if a youthful female looked as though it might fancy an older guy she wil in all probability be after any money she thinks he has.the two that or shes going for a father parent because of the fact shes had a undesirable time of it someplace in her existence.You do get some extremely sensible finding 50yr olds(if he appeared a youthful 50),if that have been the case then it must be a actual case of fancying.you're able to take the persons under consideration in circumstances like that to make certain if its actual.
2016-11-24 20:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by bleau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just numbers, if you fancy him and think he does too take it further next time he flirts with you.
Dont spend your life wondering 'what if' and its true that its better to regret something you have done rather than something you haven't done.
Besides an older man will be more stable, will be happier within himself and will be far less likely to mess you around - unless he gets the hots for your mum :)
Go for it, the likelihood is that it wont last long anyway - have some fun.
2007-02-20 02:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by thecoldvoiceofreason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 30 and he's 50 - I don't see a problem there at all, go for it! If you were 16 and he 36 then maybe age would create a few issues but as it is, you obviously are at an age where you can make your own choices and decisions!
2007-02-20 01:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by pianowez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say go for it, I love older fellas as well. They are so sexy and know how to look after a lady in the bedroom department. I love Noel Edmonds I think he is sex on legs, he could open my box anytime.
2007-02-20 02:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by mgyb25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No age is just a number. I was in love with a guy 20yrs older than me and it was unrequited.
Also quiet creepy. A friend of our family in his late 50s married with a daughter that I know asked me to kiss him once. I didn't !!!
Against my morals but also thought it was a little pervy because he used to change me when I was a baby. How wrong !!!
I think if you fall in love with someone, you shouldn't rule them out because they don't fall into a certain age group. They could be your Mr Right.
2007-02-20 02:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is 19 years older than me and we have been together for 13 years. The age difference is not an issue with us.
2007-02-20 02:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is not a barrier. Just follow your feeling. After-all women intuition is the best. When u feels that he is the perfect partner to go along with, let the situation and nature build ur relationship further. I personally think that you should not rush.
Sincerely wish you all the best.
2007-02-20 02:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by ApXeLLe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is just a number of years you've been on the planet. Most people prefer people their own age, but if there's a mutual attraction, go for it.
When I was in college (I went to college later in life), I dated women ten years younger than I.
2007-02-20 01:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not thinking of a long-term relationship then age probably won't be an issue as long as you both understand. It will seem like a platonic relationship...play for you...tonic for him. Now, if he is Mum's lover that might make for some interesting evenings.
2007-02-20 01:59:43 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋