Thisis my short story. I met this guy in a college party a month ago. We exchange numbers and started talking. He goes to a university that is 2 hours away from mine. Still he comes to my town almost every weekend because his parents are from around here. Tthing is that we talked for about 3 weeks and then everything dissolved. Why? I work on the weekends, and he only came to my town one time after we meet because he had a lot of things going on for him at his town. Example: He was moving to a different apartment, his parents went another weekend to see it and stayed all the weekend, and the only weekend he came I was working and he only came for one day.. we didn't see each other. The thing is that we started to drift apart until one day it all end ... he called me I wasn't available then I called him he didn't answer. End. What happened? I am going to his town next weekend since my best friend lives over there, coincidence is that he lives just next door. Should I visit or call him?
2007-02-20 01:45:17 · 17 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, if u ask the guys, they'd say girls r more difficult to understand, so it goes both ways.
I think u should take it easy. His keeping u incommunicado could mean that he's not quite sure how to move 4ward... or it could mean that he has someone else and is slowly trying to pull back. Either way, ur best bet is to find out. That way, u can have a sure answer to ur problem instead of always wondering.....
I advice that u go visit ur friend just like u've planned, then try calling him from her place (since he has not been picking ur calls, presumably from ur fone). Wen he picks up, let him know where u r and why u r there. Then u can let him know that u would like to see him. Let his response guide u. If he doesnt want to see you, u'll know. If he wants to see u, and infact does, u can then talk with him.
Mind-over-matter, u'll feel a lot better when u know where u stand.
Pls pls... dont pay him a surprise visit, u need to keep some distance in order to earn respect. Besides, u just might drop by at a bad time for him or he may misinterprete it as u being desperate or plain rude.
2007-02-20 02:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by giness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're going to be next door, I'd say it's safe to drop in and say hi. If he has in fact totally written you off, then you don't have to feel bad that you made a special trip or drove all the way across town just to get rejected.
And hey, maybe you will rekindle that spark! In fact, if he still has interest in you, then there's a good chance he will be flattered that you stopped in to see him. I say give it a try.
Of course, there's always a chance that he won't be there when you drop in. So you might want to call him too.
2007-02-20 01:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by wa-webguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt call him. Its not the place of a lady to be calling on a man. unless your a ho then dont heed the above advice. if you happen to see him on the street while you are visiting your friend you can approach him and say hello and how are you doing. but keep it short and sweet and then tell him that you must run. end it by saying how nice it was to see him again then say goodbye.
2007-02-20 01:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,he is not into you. sorry sweetie. go do your thingy in his town, be strong and brush this crumb off and move on. Be strong and of purpose. Find some local friends and stay busy, but do-not contact him. take your power back. Remember, men like the chase, the hunt, so if he was into you, he would be hunting you down...... sorry, good luck.
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2007-02-20 01:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by WAWAYNE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:20:35 · answer #5 · answered by archuletta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably realized it wasn't going to work out. I think you should call and try to get a straight answer from him so you can go about your own life. If he doesn't want to tell you then forget about him.
2007-02-20 01:49:48 · answer #6 · answered by whatever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he liked you enough, he'd still be calling and trying to make it work. Go see your best friend, if you see him fine, if not fine. He sounds like a waste of time to me. Have a good time with your girls.
2007-02-20 01:49:54 · answer #7 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you give him a call and let him know that you'll be visiting his neighbour and check if he's free to meet up with you. No surprise visit please because it may be a surprise to you but bad timing for him. Thread this with caution.
2007-02-20 01:51:02 · answer #8 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a short story. He has other interests...move along with life.
2007-02-20 01:48:24 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it one more try, closure is better than a lingering regret. Sounds like he is tired of trying but if he sees you showing interest it might swing in your favour.
2007-02-20 01:55:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋