i'm 18, bf is 19. Been together for 1 month. Should i go to his house on thursday (as we kinda planed) n hav sex with him?? or should i wait ... i don want to make him disapointed + don wanna do some thing i'll regret later
2007-02-20 01:41:51 · 21 answers · asked by kitXcat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hope I'm not too late with this answer, don't have sex with some one you just met. if a guy try to get you in bed on the first date, that is all he wants any way. he will never respect you for doing it on the first date. he will tell all of his boys about laying you on the first date. if he cared anything for you he would want to take you to a movie or out to dinner on your first date not bed you down putting it nicely. do not go to this boy house with him, matter of fact you should not have any thing to do with him. just the idea he would want you to do something so low. he doesn't even like you a little bit. let the dog get another bone to chew on.
2007-02-20 03:03:52 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT, don't do it...
your only 18, sure you'll no doubt use protection and all that but to be honest you may regret it later in life... don't be doing something like that when you've only been dating 1 month.. otherwise knowing him he'll talk to his friends..
Don't worry if he's disappointed or anything like that, there are plenty of people who want the girl and not the sex in this world...
2007-02-20 09:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will be the best judget if this is what you want in the relationship. Consenting to sex for the sake of pleasing him would be a step in the wrong direction. Are you both committed to the relationship? At age 18 I think you'll too young to enter a serious relationship. Mix with a wider circle of friends and allow yourself opportunities to meet more people. Who knows you may meet someone that suits your personality.
2007-02-20 09:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My onpinion is DO NOT HAVE SEX!
You'll regret it and cud get aid and even pregnant, *condoms arent that reliable*. Wait for that "mr. right". I cant make the decision for you, so follow your heart. But its a huge risk. Look on a scale of 1-10 and if you love for him isnt a 9 or up dont have sex. Just make out at his house or cuddle, if he really loved you enough to sleep with you, he'll wait til your ready.
2007-02-20 09:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO!!! You are young, you have many years ahead of you to do it. Sex is not all it is cracked up to be. You need to think about STDs and pregnancy. Birth contol is not fool proof. I (like most people) went through this. I did it and years later I wish I had waited. Don't do something that you may regret down the road.
2007-02-20 09:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheapen sex for youself. Sex is something very special between people who are in love. One month is not long enough, wait, say, for 10 years or something. Seriously, you are young. You'll probably regret it. Make the right choice...if he's really right for you...he'll wait. My HS sweetheart waited for 3 years until I was ready. Good luck!
2007-02-20 09:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont feel ready then you should wait. Only have sex with him if you love and trust him and feel ready. If he really loves you then he will be happy to wait. Tell him that you are feeling worried and that maybe it is too soon, if he understands then great you've got yourself a gooden, if he gets angry or tries to pressure you then good job you've found out now maybe hes not the one! Take your time theres no rush!
2007-02-20 09:51:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should def wait until the perfect moment!! It should not be planned! Please....just wait, and then that way, since you had it planned, tell him sorry I'm just not ready, this isnt how i imagined us starting off! Then if he's fine with it..you got yourself a descent guy...if he's pissed, then get rid of him, as he was ony in it for one thing anyway!!!
Good Luck, hope this helped a lil!!
2007-02-20 09:47:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, after being together for a whole month that certainly has given both of you to develop a strong, lasting and loving relationship. And, with both of you so focusing on making your lives together work so well, what better way to mark the occasion than with a bit of virginity losing.
2007-02-20 09:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 month and you are already giving yourself up. i am 17 almost 18 and i would never do it in one month. wait untill you know he just doesnt want you for that. you got a lot to learn if you do it that fast. i wouldnt do it if he is disappointed that is all he wants and he is no good for you. these boys are out there to get you make sure you dont let him get you.
2007-02-20 09:46:06 · answer #10 · answered by i got excitement in my life 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋