I'm with my bf for 5 yrs, mostly his time spend on gaming and we seldom go out merely staying at his place. But i have adopt it and leave wit it coz i really likes him. Yet he ignore my calls and told me our relationship is pointless. He just dump me as whenever he likes. I really duno shud i call and clarify with him or ignore him too. Anyone experience or treat your gf like this. I need a answer
2007-02-20 01:39:19 · 12 answers · asked by vin3grap3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why the hell are you asking this question on yahoo answers when you should clearly get some friends and ask them?
2007-02-20 01:45:26 · answer #1 · answered by tanor s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's emotionally abusing you, whether he means to or not. You see these sentences here: "So we agreed that if he was mad at something other than me, he would tell me and THEN I would leave him alone. I didn't even say he had to tell me what was bothering him; he just had to tell me that SOMETHING was bothering him. Otherwise I would assume he was mad at me." That is a perfect way to deal with the situation, I can't fault it. You have done your best to work to both your needs and he has chosen not to cooperate. If you stay with him it will only get worse. Communication is necessary for an adult relationship. I know some people don't like it, but they need to learn to do it or learn to live without a relationship, because it's not negotiable.
2016-03-29 04:11:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no not yet
it means if things dont change that means
the relationship will be over
if u want to salvage ur relationship
reach out to him and talk things out
if he refuses
then the pressure or whine or complain
let it be
u tried
and leave him alone
he might come back
2007-02-20 02:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like my ex. Dump his sorry @$$. He doesn't love you, let alone even like you. Why waste any more time on this jerk?
2007-02-20 01:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him and move on. He's made his choice. Sorry.
2007-02-20 01:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please move on....this guy is saying over and over through his actions that you're not important to him.
You deserve so much better and almost anything else would be better.
2007-02-20 01:48:06 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, time to move one. He's a loser and you deserve better than that.
2007-02-20 01:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jewel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No more sex for him...and move out and get on with your life.
2007-02-20 01:42:35 · answer #8 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES its over
2007-02-20 01:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Arthur D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is ignoring you dump him.
2007-02-20 01:47:26 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋