I love my bf, but lately, all i focus on is him and it has sent me into a fit of bad depression when he's not around. i am afraid that i will become so close to him that i won't be able to be away from him without going crazy with depression. what are some suggestions you have that would help me be more independant and keep our relationship from fizzling out.
2007-02-20 01:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by ♥kisses_in_the_rain♥ 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Get your own life which includes hanging out with your friends and family and maybe take up a hobby or a class. You need to learn how to be alone also so maybe stay at home and watch movies by yourself or go out and exercise. Just do something to keep yourself busy.
2007-02-20 01:47:52 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby. Seriously, go out and do something that you want to do just for you on a regular basis. For me that is pottery. There are art and dance classes at local community centers.
2007-02-20 01:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, one thing you have to consider is how long you've been with him. if it's a new relationship (couple of months) then you're in a kind of honeymoon phase that will kind of end on its own. you can help it by getting a hobby of some kind. if you've been with him longer (maybe a year or 2), then it's just dependancy. maybe make some new friends and do a hobby with them.
2007-02-20 01:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by HW-7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok?
2007-02-20 01:56:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋