i have a brother-inlaw always wanna hug me not his wife.always compliments me even infront of his wife,s presents(sister).he knows its kills her but he tends to do it all the time....i hate it and he knows it bec when my husband is around he neva does it.had major argument with sister over this topic and i decided to break the tie 4 a while but i still see them under certain circumstances but he do it over and over.what 2 do?
feel sorry 4 my sister bec i feel uncomfortable but she has no say in the marriage
2007-02-20 01:36:01 · 8 answers · asked by whitycat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Keep away from him and if you have to see him tell him to stop.
2007-02-24 00:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he does it again make sure you tell him to knock it off. OUT LOUD so that everyone can hear you. perhaps he thinks it's funny to piss you and your sister off or he thinks its some kind of secret and that you'll never do anything to embarrass yourself or your sister. saying no, in a way that everyone knows whats going on, is a good way to get your point across and let everybody else know what he's doing and that you won't stand for it. it may embarrass your sister but is that any worse than the situation now?
2007-02-20 11:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Like others are recommending you to do, TELL HIM TO STOP, and that is your responsibility. When you see him coming towards you turn around and move away. Tell him that you don't respect him for what he does to you and your sister. Be strong.
2007-02-20 10:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by Pluto 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would just come out and tell him to stop it and that you feel uncomfortable about him hugging on you all the time.
2007-02-20 09:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well next time he hugs u tell him to go hug his wife refuse the friendly gestures & comments
2007-02-20 10:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a sick loser to me....stay away from him. tell him why if you must, and tell your sister to get a backbone!!!
2007-02-20 09:46:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell ur sister 'bout it
^__^ GOOD LUCK
2007-02-20 09:45:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would let the sick perv know how you feel.
2007-02-20 09:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by i got excitement in my life 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋