how long should u try at a relationship???

Question

ive been in a relationship for 6 weeks and we are havin problems i dnt wanna give up on sumthing that could work wat should i do any comments will do ???? xxx

Answer 1

stick in their, dont give up just yet

Answer 2

If you are having problems now then I would just walk away

Because you will always refer back to those doubts you had 6 weeks in when you split up 10 years later.......

Trust me that was me, I got caught up in buying a house, decorating getting married having a baby but never focusing on the problems that were there even at the beginning

Good luck dating it will be great fun

You never know you both might live a bit and learn new things and meet up a few years later and hit it off

Answer 3

it depends on the type of problems u are having, that will make someone decide to stay and work it out or move on. but seriously, if u are havin probs in a 6 week relationship, that is usually a bad sign that things are not good.

Answer 4

It takes two to make anything work. If six weeks into it there's already issues & he doesn't see it or care, drop him now before you invest time into a fruitless endeavor. If he's on the same page as you in regards to the problems and wants to work it out just as you do then try it, might be worth it. But I have to say having problems six weeks into a relationship is a really bad sign. Good luck!

Answer 5

Well how new are both of you to dating. Often people new to dating have problems making connections and feeling the connection. It is like riding a bike. After you have done it so many times it becomes easier. I would continue the relationship just to gain dating experience. Read dating books, ask for advice, try something new. Some people don't build up their people skills and have trouble getting along with people until they start dating, then that changes.

Answer 6

Unfortunately for you, if your relationship is having problems after only 6 weeks, then my guess is it isn't worth working at it. After 6 weeks, you should both be still in the "Siamese twin" stages - you know, joined at the hip every waking moment, gazing into each others' eyes, feeding each other bits of your lunch/dinner, kissing, holding hands etc. etc.

If you don't sit down and talk honestly about it, you're better off saying goodbye!

Answer 7

If you're having problems already only 6 weeks into it then to be honest i dont see this relationship lasting and if it does it will probs be a turblent one all the way through until eventually it breaks. you definitley shouldn't see cracks in any relationship so early in fact i wouldnt even class it as a "relationship" so to speak as you should be still in teh getting to know each other stage and the fun of the begginng of something new.

Answer 8

heres my perspective. there is a 6 mount honeymoon stage. in those first six months if don't work then honey don't waist your time its not going to work. the relationship at the beginning should be perfect and you should be happy bc that's what sets the relationship if there are problems now only 6 weeks run run and run again bc that's not going to work. trust me been in those situation to many times just to much stress and drama and waisted my time

Answer 9

If you're having problems after 6 weeks, I say walk away now. 6 weeks into a relationship you're supposed to be in euphoria and enjoying every bit of it, that you're not speaks volumes.

Answer 10

Depends how much you like the dude, and how they treat you?! Personally I've been their and glad I moved on. Cos now I'm with a brilliant lad, and engaged!

Answer 11

Give it 3 months if you think its worth it by that time you should be able to see if it'll go the distance