Why is life so cruel and cold
2007-02-20 01:05:01 · 16 answers · asked by evy m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
That's your perception of life and I feel sorry for you. There is so much beauty to be seen, you just need to open up your heart and it's yours. :-)
2007-02-20 01:08:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only how you view it....It can be a really wonderful place if you let it and enjoy every minute you can. You cannot go around saying its a cold world. When really its all you make of it! You can enjoy every minute of your life...you take the good with the bad. Life is too short to worry about things all the time. Live it up! There are plenty of ways to do so! Sure life seems all cruel some days...but we get over that and learn to have fun with it and see wherever life may take us next! So, hang on, it could be a bumpy ride...but relax and enjoy it!!
2007-02-20 09:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot change the world and yes a great deal of it is cruel and cold. It's not the world it's the people in it. All you can do is overlook what you see and do the very best you can to stay away from those who gossip or cause you problems. Happiness begins and manifests within ourselves. You ultimately will be the one to make yourself happy. Live your life accordingly. Do all the things that make you happy. When you are happy you will attract others who want to be like you. Don't let other people pull you down. Good Luck.
2007-02-24 00:03:00 · answer #3 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You let life treat you that way . Stand up and take what you want from life . Don't let anyone tell you you cant do what you want . Believe in yourself not how others make you feel . Don't let others win and make you feel like life is cold and cruel .
2007-02-20 09:19:37 · answer #4 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that depends on your perspective. If you perceive life as cruel and cold, that's what you will get, if you perceive life as sweet and harmonious then thats also what you will get. We receive what we put into life. Life is a game, it is a game of give and take. If you give love then you will receive love .So let me ask you, what have you been giving into life? Have you been giving love, joy, smiles , hope or you've been giving cruelty, coldness, sadness and despair. Think of it and you will find your answer. One thing for sure is this, life is a dream, your dream and what your recieve is your reality.
2007-02-20 10:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for some it seems like it is but to others it's not. It all depends what happens in your life that makes life creul and cold. MAybe a break up, or your bf cheat on you, or your gettinga divorce it all depends on the situation you put in. But try living life to teh fullest, one day at a tiiime and with no regrets. ALso remmeber your friends can be a big help when you need someone to talk to and if not just IM me anytime and I'lll chat with you.
2007-02-20 09:11:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is neither cruel nor kind, neither cold nor hot. Life is just life, we need to learn to live with and live by, while continuing to put in our best ever without care and concern for rewards and results!
2007-02-24 04:37:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a fact of life, and its also about perception. It's like when people say why isn't life fair? Well, no one ever said it was fair, right? Life is what you make of it. you can't let things get you down. Life can be cold, but it can also be warm and wonderful. It's up to each and everyone of us to do our best to pursue happiness and contentment.
2007-02-20 10:16:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
And ur a woman, ok well i suggest take up a hobby! or go travelling across the orient! i do juggling and im hardly ever depressed! see my exclaimation marks!!!!!! hehehe!!!!! well try to get out more, go sailing or bike riding (i prefer unicycling) but just dont be sad, life is wayyyyyy better if u smile and ignore the bastards in the world!
i researched some links for you and anyone with depression because im a nice person *-*
And i think if you understand why you are depressed then you can overcome it, so i got a wikipedia link aswell.
im only 14 so ermm, hope you get better and have fun :)
2007-02-20 09:21:00 · answer #9 · answered by Fire Juggler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think life is a ball but sometimes its ppl dat makes it cruel and cold
2007-02-20 09:47:55 · answer #10 · answered by whitycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cruel all the time. Only sometimes, that's why you have to grab little moments of happiness when they pop up!
2007-02-20 09:09:16 · answer #11 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋