She says I don't feel like a boyfriend even tho she really likes me and finds me attractive. What can I do to make her feel more like a girlfriend than a friend?
2007-02-20 00:58:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means you've discovered the hidden secret that nor even women know what they actually want nor are they overly bothered about what they do to other people.
By that I mean when a situation raises it's head rather than stand up and fight it and try to save things, they'll shrug their shoulders and say "just the way it goes".
The best thing you can do in all honesty is to end it yourself before you end up jumping through hoops trying to prevent the inevitable which will make you feel even worse in the long run.
Talk to her first, if there's a chance of saving things, do everything you can, if she's adamant on her position, just get yourself out of it before it goes too long and cuts too deep bro
2007-02-20 01:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Funky B Funky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advise is keep the friendship and cancel the romance. Girlfriends come and go but a good friend is hard to find. Besides there is a possibility that she's interested in other guys and just wants to break it off with you romantically in a nice way. Don't let it drag on until she cheats on you. Take it from a girl's point of view it will get to that.
2007-02-20 01:08:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dear sweetie im afraid there is probably nothing you can do, You are obviously very close and have been together along time, but what she is really saying is she doesnt find you sexually attractive anymore, you have become so close that having sex probably doesnt feel right and almost like a brother sister thing.
she is telling you the truth that she finds you attractive and really likes you, but I have been there and done that with an ex and although I still love him to this day the lust was not there and I could not get it back and those are the words I used to him, sorry chick maybe it is time to move on. xx
2007-02-20 01:04:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically she's saying that she likes you as a friend, and isn't attracted to you. If she liked you and found you attractive, you wouln't be a friend. Sorry man. She sounds like one of those girls that you just can't make happy.
2016-05-23 22:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not stay on the safe side of being her friend, although this helps, its not that bad to go beyond the border of friendship and lovers.. i think you're girlfriend just wants more affection and cuddles.. the sweet mushy stuff that lovers do.. you know, some girls are suckers for romance like what they see in some movies..
2007-02-20 01:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by carol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do more romantic staff. take her to nice places and gently talk to her. make her feel good by her roses and all that staff. act like real bf. gd luck
2007-02-20 01:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she feels that way. YOu cant do or change anything uless you know what to do or change.
2007-02-20 01:02:08 · answer #7 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you don't do it for her at least she is honest but she still likes you as a trusted friend
2007-02-20 01:01:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends are something that you will always need.
2007-02-20 01:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her
2007-02-20 01:06:10 · answer #10 · answered by G P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋