can anyone help me iv got a mum who nags all the time and i feel as if i hate her?

Answer 1

Is your Mother nagging because you don't follow rules or is she belittling you. Telling you to come home on time or clean your room is usual nagging and you should just comply. If she is belittling you than you have a problem. Rather your Mother has a probem. Firstly, sit down and talk about it even at first with another family member. Secondly admit what your role is in this.
If it is routine nagging you may have to resolve these issues. If Mum just puts you down than you need intervention. By the way it is normal to hate your Mother once and awhile. I did it and I am sure mydaughter did. I lost my Mom when she was a young woman. I would have done anything to have had her a few more years. I just had serious health problems which seemed to be resolved. All my dauhter could think about was having a child that would never know me. You know. me too. Good Luck

Answer 2

Nagging moms are a part of life. Some may take it over the edge a bit, but it is always because of love. If it really bothers you then talk to her about it. Tell her that you would rather she simply tell you things rather than nag on you about them. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Being a "mum"..I can tell you why mums nag..we nag because we feel we are not being "listened too"..while you may "hear" what we are saying, are you really listening??? And usually mums are raised to nag from many years of people around them not listening and only hearing..which results in certian things not being done or done that shouldnt be done..which cause us stress and anxiety and causes us to become uncool nags of the future..so...listen to your mum..not just hear...whew*

Answer 4

What is she nagging you about? Have you tried actually doing whatever it is?

Go for the easy life - try to predict what she'll nag you for and do it before she gets the chance to. Then you can get on with what you want to do!

Or if you can do it, get in there first before she can pick up on anything. 'I'm really sorry mum, I haven't had the chance to tidy my room but I will do it when I get back'. And do it, obviously.

Answer 5

I think a lot of us have felt like that, (I know I do). Just remember that your Mum just wants what's best for you.
It may seem like she's being unfair or mean but she's only doing what she thinks is best.
If you really do feel as though she's driving you mad, try talking to her, tell her how you feel, and that you'd prefer it if she asked you instead of nagged you.

Plus, if you just do what she says, maybe she'll be a bit less um...nagging?

Answer 6

Its only natural to have feelings of dislike when your getting told what to do. Especially if you think you are right.
Listen to what your mum says & make an effort to do what she 'asks.' Within a week she will see you are making an effort to do what she says & get off your back. You may get away with more if you put a little bit of effort in & you can be responsible for a harmonious household.
p.s if its hard to do what she asks, just think about what she does for you. Make a list, it might help you realise how hard she works at being mum

Answer 7

oh well Just talk to her and tell her how u feel wen she keeps nags all the time. she might stop. well try anyway. thats just usuall staff that mother do. every mother does that. u dont really hate her u just upset and cant take it anymore. just talk to her shes ur mum she'll understand.

Answer 8

You don't say how old you are, listen, I thought my mum nagged me, but I NEVER answered back, or back chatted,[probably under my breath]. My mum died 18months ago, I wish she was still hear to nag me now. Don't say that you feel you hate her, THATS BAD.

Answer 9

thats what mums do sometime,dont ever hate your mum,you only have one,try and calm down,maybe you could go for a wee walk,I sometimes felt like you when I was younger,good luck

Answer 10

you FEEL that you hate her, but you dont and you know you dont, so wotever the problem go give her a big hug and tell her you love her.