ok, so my friend has this email that her and several others use. Now, they stopped using it, and only her and another girl use it. it has alot of people added on it. They knew my email password, so they took a couple of people from my list. When i went on thier email, i saw that my crush was online. He wasnt online on my list(basically i think he blocked me). So i started talking to him(on the other email-not mine), (only twice.. but two longg times) and he said that he feels there is a connection between us and all that, and i told him i dont live in the country that he lives in. He doesnt know that i actually know him and he knows me too. We met in the summer- and he told me he liked me. We didn't chat much, after that my friend said ask him if he seriously likes you, and i asked and he said no. However, he "did" all the "signs"or wtv that show he liked me. Also, teh truth is we do live in the same country.
2007-02-20 00:19:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
continuation: Now, hes actually starting to like me for who i am. In the summer, he liked me for my looks(im guessing), he never really had a proper conversation with me. What should i do? i like him, should i tell him its really me? or should i just forget about it? One of my friends says noo u cant tell him, the other says tell him. I know what I did was wrong. What do you think?
2007-02-20 00:21:59 · update #1
btw i know its him. its not one of his friends or anything. I can tell from the way he talks, language he uses, his style etc... its him for sure.
2007-02-20 00:44:51 · update #2
Some guys might feel uncomfortable telling someone they like them. Don't immediately cross him off. Try to continue chatting with him and see what happens.
2007-02-20 00:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What part did you do wrong? Many people get very involve with the internet. Talking to people over the net is not the same as interacting with a person. You don't really know the people on the net. Just like yu did with this guy they could be pretending to be someone else. So be very weary. Also, distance relationships rarely work. We humans ned physical contact like holding hands and what not.
So, lets say he lives near by. then at somepoint is ok to tell him. Evrything is fair in love and war. So, you use trickery to entice him. So what??! as long as it works. Now, you have to be aware of 2 things. When you tell unmask yourself there is a posibility of 1) the person may feel betrayed. It could happened but is very unreasonable. Is the internet for cthulhus sake!!!. The other thing that could happen and the most important one is 2) You may not get the results you might be hoping so. But this can also be said if the cituation was not on the internet. If it doesn't work out then you can stil be friends albeit very unconfortable.
My opinion, Go for it. If it works out great. If it doesn't then it frees you to look somewhere else. There are pleny other fish in the water.
2007-02-20 08:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had some similar situations come up. I have always been raised to say the right thing at the right time which is hard to do. If you really do like him and you want to make things right then take a risk and tell him. Relationships are all about risk, if you can't take a risk put your neck out and count on the other person being there to support you then it's not worth it. I would say tell him it's the right thing to do and if it is meant to be it is meant to be. If not there are a whole lot more fish in the sea trust me.
2007-02-20 08:28:07 · answer #3 · answered by allaroundathlete50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him. I think that he might be mad if he finds out you fooled him. That would blow your chance of ever having a relationship with him. I say you quit the online thing though. Just don't talk to him there anymore. Good luck!
2007-02-20 08:27:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him gradually, don't go all out on him and say i'm this girl. slowly let him know more about you and you get to know more about him. use this as an opportunity, maybe things will turn out well between you two.
2007-02-20 08:28:43 · answer #5 · answered by Soaring 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really bout what u want,if u like him he dont have 2 know bout the e-mail but later will he find out? if u have chemistry he dont have 2 know , but if he find's out later will it b a problem?love is like magic and ,magic is an illusion,so what is a little lie?
2007-02-20 08:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one cares theres like 58496809585690705968709567 boys int the world and they come and go like seansons
2007-02-20 08:24:08 · answer #7 · answered by PRiNCESS Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hehehe nice one from you , you should tell him the whole truth guys appreciate when girls tell the truth and i think if he does like you for real he'll understand and everything will go allright.
2007-02-20 08:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by OB5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm first step would be to grow up, how old are you? 12?? Dishonesty will get you nowhere, and btw how do you know yorue talking to him and not one of his mates :))
2007-02-20 08:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by Madam 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
next time you want a real relationship... talk in person.. and don't lie.
2007-02-20 08:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by J-Rod on the Radio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋