so i hate to sing nowadays. my other classmates also critisize me when i am singing but praise her when she is singing . i feel like not to continue in this field . what should i do?she had also grabbed my place in the class and now i am placed in a corner seat , not able to view anything written on the board. i hate to go to school .and i started hating her . sometimes when i am depressed i feel like commiting suicide. what can i do?
2007-02-19 23:39:49 · 12 answers · asked by hannah montana 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Thats life for you, there will always be someone better than you in something. Its not the end of the world, just try getting another hobby if it bothers you that much
2007-02-19 23:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by f_jayce 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I teach high school choir and this is one of the things I worry about most when it comes to my students. First of all, if singing makes you happy, you should keep doing it, no matter who is better than you right now. Remember, if you work hard, you can get better, and who knows, maybe she's just basking in her talent and not doing anything to improve. If you improve and she doesn't, one day you'll pass her by. Also, do you know who my favorite students are? The ones with a good attitude who try hard. I have some with beautiful voices who think they are the queen of all things, and that's not what singing is all about. It's about making music with your friends. Your voice is a very personal part of you. It's what you have, and you can choose to make the most of it or not.
I hope this helps. Please don't quit yet. If you're still unhappy at the end of the school year, maybe you should find something else, but please hang in there.
2007-02-20 08:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by chardonnay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Growing up i had dreams of one day running in the olympics until i got to the state meet and saw that there were at least 10 people just a fast if not faster than, and that was just in my state. add in 49 other states and i realized that maybe i'm #250 at best. Thats not gonna get to the olympics. Therefor i had to move on, and congradulate those who were better, because it was the Truth. If someone came to me and said. Your so slow, you will never run in the olympics, i have no choice but to say, yeah your right. Eventhough they were really rude about it, but its the truth.
Please note that you never want people to like you for your skills or talents. because you never know when an accident will happen and you can no longer sing, or you break a leg and can no longer play in the NBA, And then you have no talent and no friends or who you thought were your friends. Yo uwant people to like you for you and for not getting sucked into the world of doing for show and to please others. Since your young its hard to see that, but in the future you will have people come up to you and say how they enjoyed that fact that you were always true to yourself.
If you were to die today, what would you want people to say about you?
Hannah was a great singer, or Hannah was a great person/friend.
As for your seat, tell you teacher you can't see the board and ask for a change. that should be no problem
As for suicide. you shouldnt think like that. You may feel depressed, but you haven't seen depressed. You may feel pain, but you haven't felt pain. You have more than you know. You need to take advantage of it. For example, you have access to a computer and the internet. a wealth of knowldge awaits, you just have to press the keys, 100's of MILLIONS don't have computer access or Clean WATER or proper food or shelter. Get over it!
Read Psalms ch 41-43
email me with any q's
2007-02-20 09:25:03 · answer #3 · answered by Gyasi M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont u start learning singing so that u can be better than others...i think this the only way...i can also sgst u an institute to learn music...
PAIPA (Pradeep Adwani's Institute for the Performing Arts)
Add. C -140, Lgf, Dayanand Colony, Lajpat Nagar-4, New-Delhi. India
Ph. 9811390306, 011-46571306.
E-mail- pradeepadwani@yahoo.com,
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2007-02-21 09:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn Classical Carnatic or hindusthani music for three to four years from a radio artiste or from a learned music teacher. You would see that the quality of your singing improves from the third month onwards of learning classical music. You should always be appreciated for singing whatever once you start doing alap. That is not difficult. All it requires is to practice the lessons taught for 45 minutes to one hour every day on a regular basis.
2007-02-21 07:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by spiritual healer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have u been learning singing,then get ur gurus opinion about ur status.if he says ur good then let the world go to hell, believe in ur potential and keep singing.why not get into singing competitions on tv and show all those from ur class where u stand.
on the other hand if ur voice is really not good then accept it.try ur hand at some other thing and excel in that,something in which ur a truly interested.
2007-02-20 11:33:11 · answer #6 · answered by mots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yaar do Gandhigiri :- U also praise her . that u sings well and gud. try to know what she has important . If you want to win from her . so you should know abt her singing.
JESSE OWNES SAID " ITS NOT IMPORTANT TO WIN OR LOOESE GAME , ITS IMPORATANT THAT YOU HAVE TAKE PART IN IT".
So atleast you have dare to sing. so dont understimate urself.Fight like warriors. are you coward gal
no way fight for ur right. who knows where you both land up.
And praise increases ego in human.So its good for you that class mates dont praise you
2007-02-20 07:55:55 · answer #7 · answered by Don 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try finding something you are good at.
Come sing with me and you will feel like you sing like an angel compared to me and that should cheer you up
2007-02-20 08:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by sapphire_630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might have a head 4 other skills but singing
2007-02-20 08:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but apparently she is better that you, and you are just going to have to get over it. Although you might want to consider taking singing lessons from the professionals.
I Cr 13;8a
2007-02-20 07:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋