I hate my family. they are very mean and Iant stand them What should Ido. I try to stay away but they always fight with me. Please help
2007-02-19 23:31:48 · 14 answers · asked by I love You 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It takes two to argue. If you don't want to argue then don't respond, don't react. Also, try to look at things from the other persons point of view. If you have problems with everyone in your family, then think about it, maybe it's not them, maybe it's you. Don't focus on the negative. Focus on their good points. You know your family has good things about them. If you give a bad attitude, then you're going to get a bad attitude back from others. Have a positive attitude. Try it for a week and see if you feel better and get along with your family better. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 01:08:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kimmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate your family? Are you being selfish? Sounds like you have a negative attitude towards your family, instead of an accepting attitude. I dont know your problems, but no argument or holding a grugde is worth it! You need your family, and they are just trying to get to you! Your not allowing them to speak to you, because you have a Hard heart.
You need to loosen up and make your relationship with your family stronger. Stop being immature and move on with life.
2007-02-20 07:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by Encouragement 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont hate them, you just have a slight problem with them. When they fight, do they abuse you? If so, yeah, I would hate them and tell my teachers and they'll contact a cousonelor and call foster-child-home care and put you into aanother family. If not, you dont hate them.
2007-02-20 08:28:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
could you tell us how they are mean?? do they yell at you?? do they hit you?? can you tell us how old you are?? can you at least give some kind of example to show us how they fight with you??
It very hard to give advise if we do not have any examples to go by..You do not have to come out and say what they are doing to you do not want to,but you can give some examples so as we can help you..
2007-02-20 11:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try family conseuling, go to a foster home. Good Luck.
2007-02-20 09:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to keep your distance and just try and stay calm and not raise your voice. That only makes u stressed out
2007-02-20 07:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by step b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to say anything to them unless it is pleasant. Its hard to be mean to someone who is being nice to you.
2007-02-20 08:42:57 · answer #7 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u can tell them u feeling,let them understand u....u can't hate them because u family bring up u.
2007-02-20 07:42:44 · answer #8 · answered by *_8phoebe7_^ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? if you are a minor talk to someone at school like a teacher or counselor.
2007-02-20 07:36:46 · answer #9 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a professional counselor.
2007-02-20 07:34:38 · answer #10 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋