I am Sasikanth, having immense faith in the almighty. I wanted to clarify some spritual doubts, which I could not get clarified by myself. So, I thought to get them clarified. Here are my doubts.
I have lost my niece Baby Mounika in July of 2006. She died at a tender age of 12. , in the month of June, she developed severe stomach pain with vomitings and has suffered a lot and then it was diagnosed that she was having heart problem and that she had severe dilated cardiomyopathy, which was irreversable and she died on July 02, 2006 after a month long suffering, which was just like a hell for her. At that time, just in one month all the major organs, heart, liver, and kidneys have been damaged severely. We were not able to see her in such pain and suffering and we could not do anything while she was going into the death trap. She also regularly used to do poojas at that tender age and she had immense beliefWhy she had all these sufferings?Who is to be blamed for her death?
2007-02-19 22:58:25 · 9 answers · asked by sasitolety 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
She was born in the year 1994 and when she attained the age of 2, she was diagnosed with tumor in the right leg (a type of bone cancer) and was treated nearly for five years during which time she has suffered a lot. After the treatment was completed and she has become a normal person, she had severe leg cramping as a side effect from Radiation treatment. After that from the age of 8, she had been leading a healthy life and in April 2006 she had attained menarche.We have performed Ganapathi homam and Ayush homam for her health both when she was under treatment for tumor and after the treatment. Even we performed the Sudarsana Homam when she attained the age of 12, the last birthday she celebrated. I do not know why this happened even after we had done various poojas and homams for her health. She also regularly used to do poojas at that tender age and she had immense belief and faith in Lord Venkateswara and Shirdi Sai Baba. Even before her death, while she was in the ICU, she lis
2007-02-19 23:02:45 · update #1
All of us have been unable to get out of that trauma and shock. From those shock waves, some doubts have developed.
1. Why this has happened to that little girl and died at a very tender age?
2. Why she had all these sufferings?
3. When well-known astrologists said that she had a very long life and her Jataka has a strong planetary position, why this happened? Were the astrologers wrong or the entire planetary system was wrong and went against her?
4. Why god has not listened to our prayers and even to the prayers of that little child? How he can separate a child from her mother?
5. Are there any rituals that could be performed by us for her soul to rest in peace?
6. Is it true that young girls who died before the age of 18 are treated as Ammavaru or Adi Sakthi amsa?
7. According to our elders in the family, there will be no rituals for younger people who died according to Hindu religion. Is it true? Can't we do anything for her.
2007-02-19 23:04:50 · update #2
I lost my own niece of 15 yrs.
Death is decided the day we are born.. and our age is dependent upon our last birth's karma
There may be some thing you all people did to her in last birth..that she left you and gave you immense pain
Sometimes higher astral shaktis are born and die young to fulfil any curse on them... in such case your niece will not be re-born as human being
The best thing you can do for her is to donate to orphanage... things which they need like beddings, TV, food items, clothes....and once you go there and donate you will see your niece peeping through the eyes of those little children.
2007-02-19 23:24:17 · answer #1 · answered by ۞Aum۞ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do understand the deep sorrow and inner vacuum created by the loss of a dear innocent child. But please try to understand that Birth, Life and Death are not in our hands. According to "Hindu" belief, we cannot find an answer for these questions. Everything happens on its own. God is the creation of mind, it is an X factor, we may call it in many names. Just as today becomes yesterday in 24 hours and all that happens today vanishes into an illusion of past, Life itself is an unexplainable Maya or illusion. The enormous Power that has created the Universe keeps its secret, beyond our comprehension. It is also our belief that once the life force exits the body becomes useless and it should be returned to the elements that had created it. Nothing in this World is our own, you and I are just visitors for a short duration of time. This cycle will continue...
2007-02-20 07:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by Brahmanyan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suffering is part of life. If you were Christian you would know Jesus said that living a spiritual life was not going to make you have perfect health or have a perfect life. Just peace of mind.
Astrology is total bunk that is a form of entertainment and should never be taken as truth.
I am sure your little one is in the arms of the Lord and tenderly cared for..Have faith that God is Love and you won't have so much doubt.
2007-02-20 07:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friend, No one is to blame, & no one sin to cause this, It is only the process of living & dying, I also lost a neiace at age 2 yrs. & I lost my 1st wife after 22 yrs. of marriage in 1989 & my wife spent 304 days in ICU, No one is to blame for that either, & no one sin to cause it. I watched my wife for 304 days die & she was 37 when she died, Now I am remarried to a very wonderful Christian woman. You & her family need to go on with life, That is what I had to do.
2007-02-20 07:12:33 · answer #4 · answered by birdsflies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to understand spirituality as the saints understood that every one of us is a soul we are not mind we are not body .we as a soul dwell in a given mind and body for a specific time only .WE as a soul are visitors to this world of KAAL(TIME) and MAYA(MATERIAL) she did not like this life and opted for a new life for her onward journey to the source of life . No body is to be blamed as life is predestined as the whole universe moves in a predestined move . Please experiance through meditation and you will receive a gush of knowldge to understand the on ward journey of the soul. god will bestow peace to the family
2007-02-20 12:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by chand b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almighty YHVH created this world very good. The adversary (Satan) claimed he had a better plan that would lead to more hapiness,and he convinced a lot of the angels that he had a good idea. YHVH knew his idea was bad, but if He had killed him, the other angels would have served Him from fear. YHVH banished Satan to this earth. Satan knows he is condemned, and will die, but he takes pleasure in making others miserable. Soon Almigty YHVH will clean this mess up with a purifying fire, and make all things new and very good again.
2007-02-20 07:11:03 · answer #6 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
She has done bad karma that is why she died with sufferings
2007-02-23 10:38:15 · answer #7 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spiritual doubts - we all have them , more or less!
2007-02-20 07:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf ?
2007-02-20 07:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋