My ex-gf and I broke up a couple of weeks ago. I was deeply in love with her and started a depression period. I've seen this other girl for one week, she's nice and cute but when I look at her, I just see my ex!!! I even called her the wrong name during sex !!! I've never faced this situation, and I want to know how long it takes to recover ! will it last ??? even my new gf is starting to realize that I still love my ex...
2007-02-19 22:29:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello there, don't worry U'll recover .... U're still occupied but it will fade as Ur new relation gets better... focus on Ur new GF, make her happy, have fun and she will help U out...
2007-02-19 22:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Tamer Lokman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great having a girlfriend especially when you are not over your ex, kind of a gap filler you should be proud to think to yourself that the gal you are with is just being used. No wonder your ex dumped your butt you have a long way before you reach manhood and become a responsible male that cares about the feelings oif others.
You know deep down you are not ready for any type of relationship
2007-02-19 22:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by trendz 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can tell you how long it will take. Each person is different and what you are going through is really a grieving process. You are grieving over the death of a relationship. So although there is no time frame as to when you will get over her something that might help is doing something you enjoyed doing before she came along. Take some you time. Figure out where you want to go next.
2007-02-19 22:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by BabiBlue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love her then find a way to fix your relationship or find out what went wrong in the first place and work on it.You also miss her and now that your routine doesn't include her you miss that,try hanging out with friends that make you feel good it will help keep your mind off the situation.Don't go for the rebound girl too quickly you'll only be disappointed it's to soon.
2007-02-19 22:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by aagent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
each and every so often a robust ex will continually be around as a reminiscence or maybe in individual domestically. a robust marriage is in basic terms no longer ruined with the help of human beings no count number what the memories are. Marriage includes the certainty that the married human beings would be mutually for the era, no count number what else occurs or has got here approximately. individually, i do no longer care if my bf looks at different women human beings each and every so often or talks approximately his ex. he's my better half, he can say or think of notwithstanding he needs. It won't exchange the actuality that we are a pair. we are able to be married sometime, possibly human beings will tempt us, idk, yet we are able to stay married and ward off infidelity in easy terms for the sake of a robust partnership and peace in our living house.
2016-09-29 09:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a broken heart does not grow back together that fast,it takes a long time to handle the situation and a the pain.
and a new relationship wont help to get over it,its not possible to love someone else when ur heart is still beeting and bleeding for this one person..it is important to get ur mind clear,and to find a way to handle the pain and to accsept the situation how it came.
nobody can tell u how long it will take ur heart to accsept that this person it beats for doesnt feel the love like u....every heart needs different ways and different times to handle the pain and the love,,what i wanna say is:,some hearts need longer time then others until they can give their love to a person again....
good luck and i hope ur heart will find a way
2007-02-19 22:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by lady in black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is said that the reverse takes as long as the realtionship. You have to retrace the steps until the point where you were alone. You can shorten this process by moving out of the environment you dated. amke new friends and do different activities.it might hurt but not as much as it did when you see or hear familiar things about your ex
2007-02-19 22:34:58 · answer #7 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never forget , you just go on with life. believe me in no tI'me you will be right back out there. howling at the moon. always remember this is true. that time heals all wounds. no matter what it is. im an old man now and i have had my share of heart breaks. but they just make you stronger and more cautious about who you give your heart too. so dint worry find some activities to get into. you ever heard of the phrase if you get thrown off your horse get right back up there on him and keep on riding. good luck to you.
2007-02-19 22:35:33 · answer #8 · answered by duc602 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved her, then it will take quite a long time if not ever. The biggest thing you need to do is not focus on forgetting her but moving on to something else. You can still miss someone but want something else thats better for you.
2007-02-19 22:33:33 · answer #9 · answered by Shannon L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,people heal in different periods of time.some take a week,some more than a month,etc.i've also been in a deep depression and it took me a long time to heal.your depression wouldn't last..it just takes time for you to heal and get over it.try to keep a scrapbook filled with her pics or keep a box filled with things that came from your dates and stuff like that.
or maybe just try to be close friends with your ex and you can hangout with her when you feel like it.but don't isolate yourself from your new girlfriend or she'll leave you as well.
2007-02-19 22:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by mcrgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋